Confidence is the act of having a high belief in oneself and the ability to do what can be tagged as risk and do not seem like a thing that can be done easily so putting up those courage knowing fully well the problem that might arise along the line but the assurance that nothing will happen and things will go well. Before you can believe in yourself that you have confidence, there are some things you must have and also be prepared to do which i will be talking about as we go in the post. The talking topic for the initiative is talking about confidence and self esteem.
I defined what confidence is at the beginning of the post and now i will be defining what self esteem and it actually means having high value for yourself. Sometimes there are some things that cant be done with just ordinary thought because they are looking like a stumbling block so using some scenerio as example i wanted to register for a program which is a musical contest and we were given a musical piece to check out and we were 100 in number which the first 3 position will be taken and to me i have been practicing it for a while but this exact music piece is very complicated which can take a while before one will know it.
So i actually set up a goal for myself that i will be able to achieve that and even though it might seem difficult i must still achieve that and i have the belief that i will sort it out before the set time, it was a sleepless night for me in those days because i already have this setup that goal and it must be achieved . At some point i was already giving up because it was already looking like a thing that can't be possible again and i just have that confidence that i will be among the top three that will be picked as the best. Checking out the music piece that will be played on the keyboard but the first step is to learn the music piece and transcribe it on the keyboard.
Everyday i always have the belief that i will surely come out well, the time for the context came and we all presented all what we have and we did, i was so scared within me during the presentation but i built the outer courage and there was no fear on my face which made me present well, guess the position i came out with after the whole contest, i came out second out of the 100 people who applied. if not for the confidence and belief that i can do it, i know i would have given up along the way.
Building your confidence goes a long way and i believe things can be done with confidence, what might seem not possible can later be possible with the level of confidence and belief that thing will come out so good.
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