Hello everyone, welcome to my blog and happy New month to you all.
It interest me to give my view on this topic" what I wish to change about myself" I love this topic because it reminds me of so many things I wished it was different," change" they say is constant, and I will like to say that change most happened to somethings and situations in our life whether we like it or not,In as much as change is constant, there are situations we need to put effort and be deliberate about changing them, there are negative habits one needs to be deliberate about or they MAR us.
I have a lots I wish to change about myself,but for the purpose of this post I will be discussing one which is, LOW SELF ESTEEM and LACK OF CONFIDENCE, why I put this two together is because they walk hand in hand, low self esteem leads to lack of confidence, I battled with this for a very Long time, this has been a barrier for so many breakthrough in my life
YOU KNOW, low self esteem makes one feel they're not capable of doing a task, it gives the wrong impression about yourself, you say I can't while you can. I caged myself in a particular place, thinking there are special people and am not part of them, it gives you the feeling that others can do this and they are better than I am.
This brings my memories back to my secondary school's days, I wouldn't dare participate in any events in school thinking I can't, when we where given a debate topic, share us into groups and my teacher gave us the date to present, unfortunately for me, my group chose me as their leader, to cut the long story short I was sick that day😂 I couldn't represent my group.
Sometimes, the earlier you realized you have a problem the better for you and the earlier your solution, when I knew that this thing is a cheat I began to put myself together and I agree to deliberately do some things I couldn't do and I began to break free from this menace, and also one of my teacher UNSHAKABLE as we fondly called him, he use to be our form master, he always advised that we can do it, no matter how hard or where you're coming from, that stick to my brain and I began my journey towards change,and I want to change completely from this.
Reading through this content, you might be passing through the same circumstance, but I want to let you know that you're a king/Queen, no man is an Island but we all are unique in our own way, tell yourself today I CAN DO IT , IAm SPECIAL
Don't talk down on yourself, don't look down on yourself .
Thank you for reading through.
Meilleur vœux ✌️
Sometimes all we need is just a little courage to make things work, we may be potentially sound to handle our problems but because of timid mindset, we are always stocked with the mindset of we can't do it and because the mind is powerful and it's the driving force, we actually won't be able. It's important we think positive about ourselves always..
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Thank you @hivebuzz I will try to reach the target
Change is deliberate a d we have to embrace it.
looking down on yourself is one of the worst enemies of life.thankyou for sharing