Hello everyone, Hope you are doing very well and that your day is going very well with you.
A relationship is something we should be ready for, and this should not be in an intimate relationship alone, but you should be ready for any other relationship you want to go into.
There are so many red flags when it comes to relationships, and these red flags can differ depending on the people involved.
Red flags are those characters, behaviours, etc., that the next person cannot cope with in a relationship. It is very important for you to discover yourself and know what you can cope with; that is why it is not good to pretend in a relationship. Know what you can take from people; if you can manage, then it is better than staying in a relationship that you are enduring.
A relationship is a medium that helps us grow and develop ourselves. I know we have imperfections, but that should not be an excuse for you to endure a relationship. It is very important that you know what you want for yourself and be ready to stick with someone you love and grow with him or her.
I have so many red flags when it comes to relationships, and these are some of them:
One of the things I frown at in a relationship is when my partner overprotects me because this can cause a lot of problems for us. This makes me feel not trusted. I love being myself and doing a lot of things, but it becomes very hard when I am being overprotected by a person. This is why I usually get angry with my dad; he feels I should not do anything for myself. He always wants me to be a baby every time, and this has always been the problem.
Another red flag in a relationship is when a man beats a woman all in the name of love, and there are some women that consider beating as love, and it gets me crazy to know that a man raises up his hands on his wife or lover. Why will you call yourself a man when you do that? And this does not happen to women alone, but I have heard about women who beat or fight with their men. Two adults living together should bring out maturity and not immaturity; beating your partner makes you a child.
Another thing I consider a red flag is lack of communication; you need to communicate with me so that I will know how to relate to you. Correct me in love and make sure you do not see me failing and keep quiet. You need to be there for me and help me grow too. Do not keep silent and judge me later; talk to me and be open to me.
I invite @hively, @tenderdaniel and @Perfect2 to join this initiative.
Here is the link to my entry
https://inleo.io/@hive-reachout/hivereachout-weekly-prompt-39relationship-red-flags-bx8?referral=hive-reachout
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