Hive reachout/ Inleo initiative 21- The Day My Pride Was Shattered.

in Hive Reachoutlast month

There are times in our life when we feel so embarrassed due to some things that have happened to us in time pass and these things happened due to our nonchalant attitude or sometimes our negligence, and then they resulted into embarrassment for us. Sometimes, we are not always at fault tho, but can these things never happen, that's the question I keep asking myself whenever I think about things like this. For this initiative, I will be sharing the most embarrassing moment which I once had. Actually, I wasn't at fault tho, but let me say I was a bit naive, and it got me so embarrassed at the end.

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Now to my experience, it happened that I was meant to go to an event with some of my friends which I was unable to. This is one of the reason I will never go to a place uninvited because when you go to a place uninvited you become a visitor and no one will want to welcome a visitor where they are not need and what they will do when you are a visitor is treated you like you are not wanted.

As I was saying, we planned to go for an event, but it was a birthday party, and normally I do not like going for parties like that but not like I don't mingle at all but there are limits to it. I was a bit late to get prepared because I was held back with something's I was doing, and my friends told me to come to the venue of the party, and they will be waiting for me.

On the normal ground, since they have said that, I will not bother to go again or instead turn them down. But since they said they will wait for me outside, I accepted to come along, and we all left. When I got to the venue of the party, I was waiting for them to come pick me, but I have called them before I got there, and they told me no problem.

When I got there, my friends told me to come in, but there were securities there normally, I didn't plan to risk it but at the same time, I just want to be brave since I have someone in there I was very confident that I was going to speak to the security guards, so I went towards them.

I should have known better that it was going to lead to embarrassment for me, I should have waited. So I moved towards the security and spoke to them, immediately they told me to go back, but I was adamant and told them I have friends inside. Immediately, I got a terrible slap from behind by one of the security guards there. I was not even pained with the slap but the fact that people were there.

I stood with tears and anger all over my face, and I called my friends inside and told them what happened. When they came outside and spoke to them, they were now telling me they did not know I was with them. I could not do anything drastic because they were with guns and I still like my life. So I just went away, and I did not stay for the event again.

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