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The issue of anger and how to control it, is one of the major and key aspect of life that everyone on this globe will have to control and tamed it continually.
Most people in life have these anger issues and lack how to control it, while some can actually control it ooo, but when it's get to an extent the reaction would change automatically, although we are all humans and there are different ways we can be offended, some in a relationship, as a family, in an institution or at your working place,what is required of you to do is to understand your environment and learned how to control it, beyond human understanding and reasonings.
But as a spiritual person, in dealing with spiritual matter's or warfare someone Said that it's good to be aggressive when dealing with some certain areas of your life, that you know it's a hindrance to your way in fulfilling your destiny assignment, and it's very truth
I was born and brought up in a family where almost all of my family members have these anger issue 😁😁, easily get provoked and has hot tempered kind of heart, it's something that one has to learned how to control it.
So in my own case, most at times although am a kind of the silent and quiet type, you know, doesn't always want too much noise, distractions and excessive talking, but even with that those things are always striving to find expression within me, even when i tried to control them.
In the case of having a disagreement with my parents, ( because am still a single person, else I may have something to share about my relationships experience) most especially my mom 😁, she love talking and talking too much, but is just of recent I realized that is not only her but it's part of the female gender generally.
She will talk, I will be quiet 😔, for some minutes still talking, even if she is seeing the signs that am angry but doesn't want to utter a word, she will keep talking 😔😔, so what I do to ease myself from the pressure, I will maybe walk out of her presence to my room or go out of the house completely, but guess what guys, if chances happens to be that we sat together or I returned home Na so de talk go continue oo 😂😂.
And you know at these moments I have no escape route again, anything that comes out of my mouth i Will utter it out, angrily or calmly, which so ever way it's, I just have to have utter those words 😔😔. My mom happens to be the person that we mostly have disagreement with most at times, not in a bad way Sha, because after those moments she will seat me down and cousel me again, giving me good advice that will help to grow my life as a man, and I sincerely love my mom ❤️, for doing such she happens to be my first girl friend in life generally, not in the other way round oo, but she is good.
HOW I MANAGE MY ANGER ......
What I do mostly is when the pressure is much and it's beyond my control, I would either go and lay down in my room crying to ease the pain of the pressure ( that usually happens in the case when I had a misunderstanding with my dad).
I do walk out of the house and relax outside ( and of course, someone like my mom during morning devotions or at any given opportunity she has, talk continues 😁).
And of course one of the things I wouldn't wants to do, but whenever the pressure is getting much and beyond my control is to utter aggressive words back to the person yelling at me, But one thing that people knows me for is my quiet mode, and so everyone knows their manner of approach when talking to me.
My mom is a testimony of that 🤭..........
Thanks for reading and engaging on my post 🥰♥️.
Hive Reachout weekly prompt engagement/∆\31, how I control my anger.
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STOPNice strategies