Love is a beautiful thing, and it is worth to behold, when the both parties involved in a relationship love each other.. But for some decades now, the narrative of what love is has drastically changed.
Leaving many to embrace the ideas into logical balancing of what should be intentional about, the trending and changes in attitudes between partners.
Leading to the redefining of relationship, love, closeness, and likeness without many properly underlining the true meaning of love.
Many issues have led to the global uprise of double dating around the world, ranging from unfaithfulness, distrust, disloyalty and lies among partners.
Not just that alone, but lack of attention, requires from both the partners could also be some reasons that leads to the Noxious decisions among partners.
But without withstand, I have never been a fan of double dating. It irritates so much. Not because, I don't have more than a full hand of reasons to double-date.
Even as such, I truly have never been its fan, and I really don't fancy it to be one. As such, today, my article would be on balancing the right and wrong of these issues coursing many relationships today.
I have been in and out of love, with not few many the little time I have spent in this world. To which many considers it as a risk.
Many consider double dating as a way of having a plan B in their relationship lives. Which is not wrong. But I don't think we should really even be talking about double dating, but sometimes narrow down to the reason people double - date.
When the reason for entering a relationship fails, many people justify this dubious act by double dating. I hope this is strictly my opinion to say they double dating is not right.
I am saying this, from the point of indication, it has course more than harm than good to many people. About 1-to-1 is okay .person. 70% of double - daters only but 25% percent of them likely ends up with the right people.
While some who stick together, tend to be people who add more maturity and have respect for each other. Because they fully understand that they can't do without each other, being together to get things done right.
This is a clear way of approaching this prompt, and not whether it is right or wrong, how it affects and builds the relationship is the matter of concern to this discussion.
People are by practice and nature made with imperfect attitude by God. So issues of what's right and wrong about double- dating is doubly for me insofar, I am concern.
If my current relationship doesn't work, I call my partners' attention, we seat down to discuss, reach an agreement. Where it doesn't appear well or apply to our goals and objectives.
We are to amicable call it off and move on to our separate ways, instead of double dating and lies to each other. So double - dating is not good, for me, I am speaking as a man, many would have their opinions as it suits them.
I also state my motive for a relationship before entering, into one. Because when one misses defining the terms and values for which their relationship should be built upon, when it gets tougher, double dating becomes the next option.
Double dating means to me, you're not certain about this relationship, let me be here in with both in case one fails. But I tell you, it is not good, that ordinary distract attention and energy to build a one perfect relationship.
Of which many have stuck to one partner and still get badges of disappointments from their partners. Which is the issue of trust I earlier listed!
To which many, including me, would not want to face, attitude difference now come to play, leading to indecisiveness, whether to love one person or as much as the eyes cashes across your way.
However, we imperfect beings would likely justify the bitrate life. It would never be said to be good in my world. Yes, it is a self-defense but trust me, it does not imply double - date is good.
Even though, in a relationship, we need the right people to walk with, but I am not saying in any reason double - dating should be justified to be right in a relationship, if people can stick to trust and love.
Learn the habits of officially calling off the previous relationship, before move on to the new one.
Very true.
There's absolutely no need to double or keep someone you someone you don't love. If you're no longer feeling it, the best thing to do is to call it off
Double Dating is birthed out of confusion and lack of focus. We can never get anyone who is hundred percent perfect. For me, if one feels the person he/she is with isn't okay, they should just quit and go for who they think they can cope with.
Thanks for sharing