Hello dear friends, this time I will talk about my favorite author, I have already talked about one of Paulo Coelho's books, this time I will show you one of his books that I was afraid that the readers would criticize it, but he expressed that he simply had to do it, even indicating that he knows that his books inspire the readers, since they have expressed it to him, but he wanted this book to also inspire by touching a topic that for many people even in the XXI century is taboo, and for others it is simply something natural that is even excessive, now we see it in songs, videos, clothing, advertising, I feel that there should always be a middle ground, and this is the fault of the society in which we are surrounded, ELEVEN MINUTES. In particular I must tell you that I loved this book, it is a thoughtful book and really its theme and plot attracted me from beginning to end, as it presents the search for the union of body and soul as one.
Why eleven minutes? Throughout the reading, Maria, the main character, tells us that eleven minutes is the time that many sexual relations last, without counting the previous moment, everything is summed up in eleven minutes.
¿Porque es tan difícil hablar de sexo estos días?, ¿Es posible evitar que alguien se ruborice en torno a la sola idea?. Pues realmente si es difícil, hay muchas personas con pensamientos libres pero en cambio hay otras que les enseñan que conocerse y explorarse es malo, que formar UNO con tu pareja no es necesario. A mi parecer es tan necesario como respirar si deseamos ser feliz. A estas alturas el sexo se ha convertido en algo mecánico, efectos del propio instinto, una cuestión carnal, de requerimiento fisiológico.
Why is it so difficult to talk about sex these days, is it possible to prevent someone from blushing at the mere thought of it? Well, it really is difficult, there are many people with free thoughts but on the other hand there are others who are taught that getting to know each other and exploring each other is bad, that forming ONE with your partner is not necessary. In my opinion it is as necessary as breathing if we want to be happy. By now sex has become something mechanical, an effect of instinct, a carnal matter, a physiological requirement.
Coelho nos propone respuestas y es que todos hemos ligado severamente el amor al dolor, es a causa de esto que la gente evita amar y sin amor el sexo sublime esta descartado. Esta obra exalta el conocimiento del cuerpo, el espíritu y la perfecta unión de ambos.
There is the fact of faking an orgasm, masturbation as an excuse not to include a third party, the fear of involving feelings, the fact of equating love to suffering, the unwillingness to commit, to get involved. All this related to the fact of not believing in love, of not having a good conversation with the person next to you, of not having confidence and expressing what you really like or not, of teaching without fear of what people will say, of opening your feelings when you really care about someone.
Coelho proposes answers and we have all severely linked love to pain, it is because of this that people avoid loving and without love the sublime sex is discarded. This work exalts the knowledge of the body, the spirit and the perfect union of both.
La conclusión de Paulo Coelho al terminar su obra fue: “Que siempre intentamos seguir un manual del sexo, y eso es un error. Once minutos es una reflexión, pero uno no aprende de la sexualidad leyendo. Hay que practicarla, hay que vivirla. Para mí sólo existen tres cosas totalmente prohibidas: la pedofilia, el incesto y el estupro. Aparte de eso, creo que toda pareja tiene libertad para ejercer las mil y una maneras de hacer el amor, desde que haya amor.” www.paulocoelho.com.br
All this is expressed through the story of Maria, a girl who grew up in a small town in Brazil that for lack of knowledge of her parents, for lack of good communication she simply decided to be a prostitute, not because she was forced to be one, or because she was starving, she just decided to be one because she hated being one every day of her life, she realized that she earned good money and wanted to gather enough to return to her town, She went through many negative things throughout her journey, but her character grew, matured and evolved is what I liked the most, from being a naive girl, closed to love, in the end she opened her heart, she fell in love with a very rich painter, who found in her the light that she herself did not notice, they fell in love, and the most beautiful of all that if like any fairy tale they stayed together, they made a beautiful family.
Paulo Coelho's conclusion at the end of his work was: "That we always try to follow a sex manual, and that is a mistake. Eleven minutes is a reflection, but you don't learn about sexuality by reading about it. You have to practice it, you have to live it. For me there are only three things that are totally forbidden: pedophilia, incest and rape. Apart from that, I believe that every couple has the freedom to exercise the thousand and one ways of making love, as long as there is love." www.paulocoelho.com.br
Imágenes de Google, otras de Canva creadas por mi, y las imágenes del libro son realizadas por mi./Images from Google, others from Canva created by me, and the images in the book are made by me.
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