Thank you so much! I hear you... most of the time my lingo is food too lol.
I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I wish her all the best and lots of courage to you too. A true friend like this is what they need at this point. Many years ago one of my best friends fought an aggressive cancer too at the very young age of 27. He had to go through so many chemo cycles and surgery. After he told us how much it meant to him that almost every day when he was home we cooked him nutritious and delicious food and on the days he was in the hospital we would always swing by and go spend time at his apartment to feed and entertain the cat.
Big hug and much love to you!