Beautiful article! I was under the impression you are from Edo but then the Urhobos and Edo are brothers. So, it's settled!
Your culture is rich and shares a lot of simularities with mine especially in the area of respect and marriage rites (bride price refund).
... as there is no punishment for men who cheats
You think so? There is but still, it does not disturb them from carrying on.
Well done and good luck in the contest.