There will be one important factor in the near future.
It will be life and death.
Meaning, most people will be in a place where they have to work it out.
They can't laze about
They can't just ignore the relationship at the detriment of the relationship.
The one thing that i hate, because i am this sort of person,
is that say you buy a piece of land (with your crypto winnings)
and build the structures, which attract some people
and the group starts to grow
... then something happens, where you are on the outside of the group
and you are "voted off the island".
i hate that, but it is also important to be able to remove any bad apple.
(or anyone who is not a fit to the group)
For me, in all my relationships, i have been the one to put in all the work up front.
I build things, i work out how to get the land.
And so, in the first years, it was all me.
Later, you would think that people would be appreciative,
but since you built everything solidly, all it requires is a little maintenance
and it becomes, "what have you done for us lately"