Congratulations on your 30th birthday!
It was 3 decades with many changes, just like your story. Collect all the good you have done and increase it many times over. Then when you are 40, you will be a person who is close to perfection. One of the pillars of perfection in life that you have built is your genuine concern for the people you care about, Bro.
May you always be blessed and have all your goals and dreams come true.
I feel like a human Pokémon. I have evolved from my base form multiple times. I wonder what I'll be like at LVL 40.