The denial stems mostly from the mistaken thinking that feelings are optional. This has led to a situation where beings reject parts of themselves that can feel - based on whether their mind likes the idea of them or not. This is a form of judgement that results in a loss of power, love, balance, capacity and consciousness.
We create our destiny through our choices, yes - however, we cannot have free will while we deny parts of ourselves and in particular we deny our own will - whiich expresses as feelings.
I'm just not seeing how that could happen without Some who are manipulating Us. I know I chose to let go of fear, knowing what I was up against when I started My work... If I had not, I would have gone along to get along, and My knowledge would have died with Me when I die.
But I still feel deeply for Humanity for whom I work.
So to have free will, I should embrace fear again? And how can it be "destiny" - which implies fixedness - what We choose through Our behavior, if We have free will to do or be anything? It would have to be writ.
Either We have free will and it's tabula rasa, or We have "destiny" and the script is writ and We're just automaton-like, playing it out.