Interesting paradox you pose here!
what you see is most definitely what you're getting.
And the more you look, the less you see.
We're supposed to focus on the good and try to Not-See the not-so-good, but in relationships, repeatedly overlooking someone's offenses and treachery can be unwise.
Yep. And we continue to make the same mistake. But like you said, overlooking repeatedly is harmful.
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