One common thing that we find ourselves in the world which we live today is couples who are notmarried, but sleep together. This is very common today but it is not allowed by God. God doesn’t want people who are not married to sleep together or have any sexual relationship with each other.
The Bible totally condemns this act and we should never forget that anything which is in the Bible comes from God.
We have to learn from Mary and Joseph, the parents of Jesus Christ about how a typical relationship should be like. We should have in mind that Joseph and Mary never had anyfor of sexual relationship until they hot married and this was why Joseph wanted to leave his wife, Mary when she got pregnant because it is a shame and he never for once touched her not to talk of getting her pregnant.
Matthew 1:18-20 says; Now the birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost.
Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a public example, was minded to put her away privily.
But while he thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a dream, saying, Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife; for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost.
This is how a relationship should be. Boyfriends and girlfriends should not yet have anything intimate or any sexual relationship before they get married but once they get the right and liberty to have anything and everything with each other.
I hope we make use of this and I hope God be with us.