It is our manner of life; our behaviors; and our attitudes that can win the heart of a person. That is what Bro Eli Soriano told us from this video. He pointed our attention to the fact that what we do will make a person prefer us. The way that we are living with someone will make the person accept us or reject us. We should not be much concerned about what others are doing to us, we should examine ourselves and see whether we are causing offense in any way.
Many children have lost the love of their parents. They are out of the preferences of their parents. Some are rejected by their fathers; others are out of favor with their mothers. All of these didn't just happen, something prompted it. Gradually, you might be observing that you have lost the favour and love of your parents. Find out what are the wrong things which you did that made their hearts to reject you.
In the same vein, many of us have lost the favour of God. We are out of favor with God. Why are we experiencing darkness in between our relationship with God? It is because we have refused to obey the commandments of God. No one can win the favor of God when he or she rejects the doctrines of the church of God. God has sent us His word through His Son Jesus Christ, we must listen to Him and obey His commandments.