We’ve all been there. Stuck on a big decision, unsure of what to do, and looking for advice. So, we ask friends, family, coworkers—anyone willing to give an opinion. It feels like the right thing to do. But is it?
The truth is, asking everyone for advice is the fastest way to make the wrong decision. Not because people want to mislead you, but because most of them have no idea what’s best for you.
Think about it. Everyone has their own goals, dreams, and fears. Their advice comes from their experiences, not yours. They see the world through their own lens, shaped by what they believe is possible. If you listen to them, you might end up living their version of life, not yours.
And then there’s the fact that most people are simply wrong. Not because they’re not smart, but because they’re not experts in what you’re trying to do. They don’t have all the details. They don’t see what you see. Their advice is based on assumptions, not facts.
This doesn’t mean you should never seek guidance. But be selective. Choose people who have been where you want to go, who understand your vision, and who won’t project their fears onto you.
At the end of the day, the best person to make the decision is you. Trust yourself. Gather information, but don’t drown in opinions. Because if you want to make the wrong decision, ask everyone.