Dealing with Life Transitions
Heyah Hivers!
How are you doing? I'm finally back after a few months of making adjustments and dealing with life transitions. The year had not yet ended, but life had surprised me with many twists and turns, detours, and new but exciting directions.
Hive has been my home for almost a year now. It has been my safe place of sharing my thoughts & ideas and I wasn't that consistent because of my fear- fear of not being good enough, smart enough, or as good as others, especially in the field of writing.
But I've come to my own terms of facing my fears head-on and maximizing what I have and what I can contribute. This wasn't an overnight decision but a result of major changes and transitions in my life right now.
So what really happened?
The first transition I had to deal with was when I resigned from my 2-year job in the construction industry. It has been my comfort zone and my 2nd home, colleagues turned into family and work became bearable because of them too. Also, they are also the reason why I've come to know Hive (shoutout to @intoy.bugoy / @indayclara / @arlin19)
Where did I go?
I was hired and sent to Manila for nearly a month of training. What a great way to begin a new job! A strange place, far from home, let alone the language barrier! Oh my goodness! Haha.
My training was extremely rigorous. We were trained by a German Principal Designer, whose name made me nervous just hearing it. We had lots of training and hands-on exercises. It was difficult but I loved every minute of it. It refreshed my love for architecture and design since this new job is more focused on creating design solutions for our clients.
During training, I met other new designers in the company and we formed a bond. My fears and feelings of being "different" in the group had vanished because I was the only "bisaya" in the batch. I became acquainted with them and realized that there are still wonderful people in the world!
Because it was my first time in BGC, one of my co-trainees even took me on a tour!
It was also my first extended period of living on my own. I grew up with my Lola and Lolo by my side. So going to Manila and facing my fears was a huge leap of faith for me. I'm not sure if I can do it, but thank God! I made it!
As time passes, I realize how grateful I am to my grandparents for taking care of me and how fortunate I am to have them. Solo living wasn't easy at all. You have to take responsibility for everything you do, which I think is also a valuable lesson I've learned at this point in my life.
Being in an unfamiliar environment really brought out the other side of me- the independent and adventurous side! I've been so at ease staying in my comfort zone, doing things I already knew, and not taking risks. Because of my fear, I was initially hesitant to travel to Manila and blog again. That is why I am grateful to my loved ones for their unwavering support and encouragement.
I returned to Cebu with a light heart and a joyful soul. No more what-ifs!
But wait!!!!
Going to Manila was supposed to be the biggest plot twist in my life, but I was wrong.
The greatest plot twist was waiting for me.
My boyfriend proposed to me, and the rest is history. It was very unexpected, very raw (I'm so unprepared! In short, haggard! lol), but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's a feeling I can't put into words. I was speechless for a moment, but then I said yes without a doubt! I'm looking forward to the new chapter that God has given us.
With all of this happening, I realized that there is a time for everything.
There are times when we should stay in our comfort zone and times when we should step outside of it. A time to sow the seeds of hard work and reap the fruits of our labor. A time to pause, start, and let go. Know that you have your own timeline. So don't compare yours and start embracing your season.
So hold on guys, whatever you're doing will not be in vain because God has a plan for everything in our lives. You may not notice it yet, but it is on its way!
Thanks for listening to my story Hivers. See you on my next blogs!
To better days ahead!🥂
~see you on my next adventure, until then!Paalam!~
Hi I'm Carla, an Architect by profession but a real-foodie in nature. I'd like to see the world as an art, full of mystery, wonder, and beauty worth living and exploring. I believe that each of us has unique gifting that could help make this world a better place.
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Yehey! Congrats @arkicarls . I really believe on the passion you have on the things that you love. I am so happy to see you grow sa place na I know ganahan jud kaau ka 💜 Ingna lang ko unsay maitabang naku for the wedding prep 😇 Lovelots @arkicarls
Thanks kaayo sa support mam @arlin19 🙏🧡 as always.
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Finally, Welcome back @arkicarls, Its nice to know where you are now after you left us 😥😅. Glad you are fine in your new Job.
Congratulations by the way, aatend naba kami ng kasal ?😅
Thanks @intoy.bugoy! 😁
Sge, invited ka basta mo sponsor ka hahahahha salamat daan😂
Wow! congrats sis @arkicarls for the engagement. Yes you're right that there will be always a time for everything and when God is planning it for sure it would be great.
Thank you so much @jenthoughts 🧡
I couldnt agree more, His time is always the best🙏
Have a great week dear✨
This is one of the things I have also grown to understand. There is time for everything and God knows what is best for you. Sorry about the Job you resigned from...You are doing well already, when God is involved, your sustenance isn't linked to the job you do alone. I am certain you understand that.
Totally agree with you @jessicaossom 🧡🙏
We should trust on His perfect timing and be patient in the waiting season.
God's timing is always the best.
Have great week dear🙏
Yeah sis...I hope you have a great week too.
Yeaaaaayyy!!!!🥰😍😍 Welcome back @arkicarls ! And Congratulations 💍! 😍
What a wonderful twist with a very surprising ending! Oh, not the end, Its just the beginning!.🥰
Yay! Hello Ma'am @callmesmile 😊. Thank you so much! I agree, this is only the beginning🙏 Adulting blogs are coming up. Hahaha
Halllaaa congrats on your engagement. Each time that I see such post engagement at preparations sa wedding bumabalik yung memories ko on preparing for mine 😂.
Ang tanging mapapayo ko lang, "Your Wedding your rules.
Wow! Hello @tpkidkai 😊. Thanks for your good wishes and wedding tips (Your wedding, your rules)! We are very excited but nervous at the same time, esp if budget pag-uusapan😅
I love all your photos they say a lot and Congratulations 🤍
Thanks a lot dear @clarissaaaa 😊
Have a great week!🧡
Hello Carla @arkicarls. Congratulations on the new and exciting milestones of your life! We are here to support you on your special journey. Best wishes and more power! 😊
Hi @storiesoferne! Thank you so much for your greetings and unfading support😊. So good to be back!
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