What’s your status this Valentine's Day? In a relationship? Single? It's complicated? Study first? Well, no matter what status you carry this heart day, I am happy that you’re here witnessing another event full of emotions and feelings. For me, having emotions means that you’re a normal and functioning human. At least you’re not a robot or you don't have Alexithymia.
If you ask me how’s my day, I will describe it as a boring and melancholic movie colored in black and white. There’s no something special, no romantic partner, and currently recovering from my past relationship. I don't know my relationship status. Maybe I’ll label it as complicated because I can’t understand myself.
Out of all the Valentines passed, it's my first time to feel this way. I remember that the previous years, I don’t care about this event. I’ll just do what I need to do and the day will pass without me noticing it. I just disregard it and everything is still just fine.
I don’t know why, but I think my primitive instinct of finding a partner is already kicking in. My hormones and other brain activity are telling me that I am already in my 20s and I am lonely and I need to find someone to fall in love with. But I just can’t do anything about it because I am still healing from my recent relationship, and I am scared to risk it again. My brain and my heart is contradicting each other!
I guess my ancestors are looking and laughing at me, and probably they won’t be so proud, lol.
To all of the peeps who are currently in a relationship, how are you? Is your heart being cared for by your partner? What’s your plan for this day? I hope you’re having a great day.
Probably, some of you will ignite a fire tonight. Just a reminder if you are not yet ready to be a parent, be responsible! If you will light a firecracker, make sure to blow it outside not on inside. Or just use protection so you will not overthink later. Life means suffering so don’t bring another human being into this world if you will make living more difficult for him/her. Aside from that, we don’t need other Scorpios in our population, jk.
For a single like me, this day is like we are pretending that I was happy with ourselves but actually we will be happier when we have someone.
I have class today, luckily. There’s something that will distract me. Academics will be my Valentine’s treat for myself because I believe knowledge is power and a great investment in myself.
But to be honest, I just don’t have any other things to do today so I have no choice but to seat in front of my computer and listen to my English professor who can’t even use a PowerPoint presentation to discuss what she’s talking about. This setup would be great if we’re in a bedroom setup and all of us want to sleep.
I have no particular plans in mind for this day. Maybe I’ll just watch a Netflix series? Just sleep because I feel bored and sleepy? Or just continue writing this gibberish? Actually, I don’t know what will this blog be all about, lol. I am just compiling all of my random thoughts. Doing this helps me to become distracted and waste my time on a healthier purpose. Instead of just scrolling on my phone and using social media for the whole day, which may worsen my Valentine's loneliness, I’ll just use my time on ‘productive’ endeavors.
Valentine's Day can bring up a mix of emotions, whether it be joy, sadness, or confusion. No matter what your relationship status may be, it's important to take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being. Whether it's through academics, hobbies, or socializing with others, find ways to distract and uplift yourself that align with your values and what makes you happy.
Remember, you don't have to be in a romantic relationship to feel loved and fulfilled. You can find love and happiness in many forms, such as friendship, family, and community. So, whether you're single or in a relationship this Valentine's Day, embrace the moment and focus on what truly matters – your own happiness and well-being.
If you want to feel less lonely this day, hop on the Hive PH Discord server and have a talk with the community. There are so many great people there which may help to feel better. I am currently active there, and I am trying to be consistent with my presence. They’re my valentines date for now hahaha. See you around!
Happily single here! Now that I'm in my 30's, looking back, I realize its a waste of energy wondering and feeling lonely just because you don't have someone to celebrate this "special" day. Most young people think that having a partner in their 20's is life & death when in fact there is so much more out there though I acknowledge that going through such things is part of the journey and learning experiences for some. Anyways, all i can say focus on the journey of knowing and loving who you are and the rest will follow. 😉
Thank you ate @indayclara. I need this advice, especially since I am in my phase of kaharutan hahaha
Noted po. noted. :))
I feel your pain bro 🤣. What can we do right? The only relationship I want right now is with a gaming laptop hahahaha...
Manifesting for your gaming laptop bro hahaha. For now, let's just love ourselves, cuddle our pillow and hug our bed 😭.
Anything you deserve will come soon!
Soo kami happily married. We didn't celebrate valentines kasi wala kami nun but we have plans to go on a date this weekend kasi may sahod na. Then sa end of the month kasi medyo anniversary namin yun as husband and wife.
Ang cute! Ocassionally pa rin ba kayo nagde-date kahit mag-asawa na kayo, kuya?
Kapag may sahod haha gusto namin iwan si Dyndyn minsan kaso di pwede. Di rin kami makalayo at ang hirap pag nag poop ang baby walang baby friendly establishments.
Pag medyo lumaki na baby nyo makakapag date na din kayo na kayong dalawa lang. Sila mama at papa laging gnaun eh hahaha
HAHAHA malamang nga nako ganyan ang balak namin pero i enjoy muna namin ang parenthood since baka ito lang ang maging baby namin.
Same as you Ford, single. HAHAHA. But I do not feel alone or sad today. For me, it is just a day with a cherry on top. 😊 We can celebrate Valentine's day every day if we want to. 😊
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Phase lang siguro ng kaharutan 'tong nararamdaman ko HSHAHAHA
Buti nalang I am starting to appreciate myself again and enjoy yung mga bagay na dati ko naman naeenjoy hahaha. Maeenjoy ko na naman pagiginh single for years 😌
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Status: always singol 😂.. Basta happy,yun mahalaga hehe
Mas less stress at less responsibility pag singol no? Apir tayo dyan ate hshaha
Haha.. Tama
Buti pa yong iba may pa Relationship Status, while me, I have nothing 😥 charot ahahahaha. Pero masaya pa rin abah, nag ayskurmmm kami kahapon ee tehehe. And for that juwa juwa, I dont really care about that rn, skl. My priority rn is to save more and ng makapag kamal na ako ng limpak limpak na kwarta 😂
That's the spirit! Gastos lang pagjojowa no? Agree ako dyan. Tapos maiistress ka lang 😆. Never again sa pagjojowa. Dami ko nasayang na opportunities kaya ngayon ipon ipon muna din ako ng pera ❤️
Sa totoo lang, imbes na pang milktea nalang natin yang igagastos sa juwa. Mas dasurb natin ng milkteatea with cheesy burger french fries sour cream flavor. Hahaha
Due to back pains and heavy rains, my Valentines day is not being celebrated as what I have expected it to be. Aigoo! But, still I am happy that I was able to spent it with my bf, so as with his family over a dinner.
Aww, hope ur okay now :)). Valentines can be celebrated every day especially that you have ur jowa. Sana all nalang talaga
It's good that you're able to spent your day with your bebe and his family. Its already special hikhok
Uso pa din talaga yung sana all ngayon ano? Hihi. Wag na mag sana all kasi meron at meron din ilalaan for you. Sooner or baka nandiyan lang sa tabi mo, di mo lang napapansin.😊
Kakakaba nga eh. Hihi..
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My status is happy and contented. I just hope that as another valentine came, may we all have peace and 😊 in our hearts
Wow, that's nice to hear! That's what important naman talaga 'no? That we have inner peace. Sa gulo ng mundong 'to, kailangan talaga natin ng kapayapaan sa sarili