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We have this new portion where we ask questions and you answer via the comments. It will run over the weekend. Once the weekend is over, we will decide the top 3 best and amazing answers from the comment section and we will let you vote for the best commenter in discord.
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Question Of The Weekend (QOTW)
For this weekend, our question is:
Gusto mo bang fini flex ka ng jowa mo on socmed?
or
Do you want your partner to flex you in socmed?
If you're in a relationship, do you want your partner to post about you? Like post that you're doing this and that, or show to the public that you're crazily in love with each other?
Or do you prefer to be low key about it?
If you're single, remember the time when you're in a relationship or think about your relationship in the future.
Contest Rules
The rules are pretty simple:
- Answer the question in the comment section. No need to create a post about it.
- There's no minimum word count but more than 1 sentence is greatly appreciated.
- No plagiarism. Syempre!
- Content must be in Filipino and/or English.
- Invite another person to join the contest.
- You don't need to be a Filipino to join this contest. Everybody is welcome to join!
Deadline of this contest is on Feb 4 EOD PH time.
Chosen commenter will win 1 HSBI!
What are you waiting for? Comment now!
No, I don’t want to be flexed on social media by my lover. I just want a private relationship. A low-key relationship is life! And I firmly believe that to love in private is the coolest thing in the world.
Perhaps based on my observation in the real world, those who always flex their love life in public often end up broke. However, it would always depend upon the situation. As for me, I do not want to be flexed. Just a genuine love even without publicity.
TGIF!
@simplybil ano sayo?
Hi there lovely lady @pinkchic! We have the same feelings, I don't want too much exposure. It's okey for me that I am happy with my love ones by myself, maybe I am a silent type.
I don't mind, but honestly as much as possible, less exposure of anything in social media is a good thing. I don't know, probably I'm old school, living in the reality is the best world.
boomer ka na daw hehe
risk of technology, life is better not seen online 😛
No, I want it private actually, like close friends and family lang nakakaalam. So if he flex it, marami ng makakaalam, haha. I dunno, I want kasi na sinisecret ako, lol. And, mejo nahihiya din akong ma flex so no talaga.
Ikaw @lhes, @xanreo, @jane1289, @ifarmgirl?
Thank you sis, for the tag. Ayoko din ma-flex sa socmed, kahit celebrity pa sya😅
I am someone who loves to flex and wants to be flexed with, it gives out a happy feeling knowing someone gives you importance in their life, but that was my mindset before since I'm an extrovert, but now I realize that It's more pleasurable to be lowkey, like not everyone knows what your up to or what's your next move. Being private has it's different pleasure and I'm loving it so far 💖
From ENFP turned to INTP-T
From Extrovert to Introvert? INTP ka na, Jude?
Yes c, nag retake ako ng personality test ko last december and naging INTP-T
And even on last week of january nag take ako ulet and its the same result.. 😆
wow naging introvert na~
I asked this question to my partner and he told me he doesn't want to flex me, actually he's not flexing me in socmed because he doesn't have a personal account and even if he does, he still won't because he's a secret person.
I have no problems with that.
Because I'm also lowkey on my relationship. I learned the hard way of everyone knowing how lovey dovey I was with someone before and when we broke up, of course, everybody knew too. 😂
So now, lowkey flex only, limited edition kumbaga hehe
Flex or no flex, it doesn't change the love ahihi
@ohlnwwlknat para sayo ata tong tanong na to 😂
Samedt 😆😆😆
Gusto ko ba? When I was younger yes, I wanted to be flex! Kasi that gives me a happy feelings 😜.
Now, mas naappreciate ko kung padalhan Niya ako Pera 🤣. Char!
Kidding aside, now I prefer privacy! Yeah, I still post on Facebook but it wasn't like before. Sometimes happy moments are meant to be keep rather than to share
Dami marites sa FB! Besides uso na stolen photos for scamming.
Ayon @ruffatotmeee .
Ikaw? @cindee08
+100 sa pagpapadala ng pera over flexing on soc med. Ahahaha.
Haha diba marse? Mas masaya kaya iyon 😀
Dati, siguro? Muntik na ako mafall ng sobra sa lalaki to the point na gusto ko i-flex niya na ako sa SOCMED kahit magalit na sakin yung Parents ko kasi nagjowa ako. Pero buti nalang hindi ginawa. If mag-post man kami nung mga nakarelasyon ko, kasama naman mga kaklase at kakilala namin sa school do'n sa mga pictures.
NGAYON, hindi ko alam. May part sa'kin na gusto ko maranasan yan. Mag Ma-myday ng mga pictures namin na nasa labas, kahit simpleng gala lang, Flex na pinagluto ko siya ng pagkain, mga ganyan. Lalo na at wala pa ako napapakilala na BOYFRIEND sa pamilya ko and naalala ko sa mga nagdaang araw panay sila tanong kung may "Boyfriend kaba?", "Kelan ka mag-aasawa?", "Magpakilala ka naman ng bf mo samin.".
Pero mas lamang parin sa'kin yung PRIVACY naming dalawa. Lalo na at napaka-toxic ng kamag-anak ko. Gusto ko ng Peace of mind at knowing my family, mahilig sila mangieelam. Tinatanong ko sa sarili ko if kaya ko ba magpakilala sakanila gayong ganito naman sila katoxic. Iniisip ko palang, ako na mahihiya sa magiging future boyfriend ko.
At okay lang naman na di niya ako iflex sa Socmed niya palagi. Ang mahalaga sakin yung Status sa epbi niya na "In a relationship with". Isang ganun lang okay na. Paranas~ eme.
Tagging @demotry @jude.villarta 🤪
My preference now would be : ‘Private but not secret’.
I wouldn’t mind him flexing me on social media. He can post me but I will not force him to do so. Basta maganda lang ako sa post nya, wala problema. 😂
@huanandsharm tagging myself kasi iisa lang account namin ni hubby. Hahahaha.
HAHAHA very important!
To be honest, I don't want to be flexed on social media it is because I want to keep everything as lowkey as possible. Like they said, beautiful things people can see on social media,they will ruin it. So, much better keep it lowkey. 😊
What's your say about this @jeannmazing ?
Honestly, I’m in a happy lowkey type of relationship right now, but it doesn’t mean that our relationship is private at all. Everyone knows, they are aware we’re together, but on a day-to-day basis “they don’t know about us”. Just like that song by One Direction with the lyrics, “they don’t know about the things we do, they don’t know about the I love yous”. For me, everything’s even more peaceful and happy because people can’t actually break what they don’t know. They don’t know about the sad and happy moments we both shared together na kami lang yung nakakaalam, and mas maigi yun kase nga pag maraming nakakaalam, mas maraming mangingialam hahahaha.
But on the other hand, to be flexed on social media is never been a bad thing naman, just moderately. Okay lang naman if iflex ako ng partner ko sa socmed if that’s his own kind of expression, because I believe we all do have our different language in terms of showing appreciation and a sense of pride to our partners. If posting on socmed is one of those things then for me it’s fine, as long as maaalign naman sa healthy and respectful relationship. Kami po is lowkey lang, but fineflex naman naming yung isa’t-isa, once in a blue moon nga lang hahaha, like birthdays, but overall we’re genuinely happy with or without social media.
Yun lang pooo! 🫶🏻🤍
Flexing is one way of showing appreciation to your partner, however, not all the time. "Lowkey" lang siguro. Enough na yung makita ng tao na you are still together and you do things often and happily. Lalo na ngayong peg, kahit walang budget ng pa fancy things or date, ma i-flex or ma appreciation post ka lang saying how grateful you are to each other ay nakakatuwa na. 😍
Ikaw @cthings? pasok. Hehehe
sakin ok lang basta may jowa. 😂
Hahahahaha. Kakaloka! Mahirap naman maflex na di mo pala jowa. Ahahahaah.
HAAHAHAHA hanap ka muna jowa 🤣
Hello everyone, my answer would be "it depends on the circumstances". Having your partner flex you on socmed shows how he/she appreciates or is proud of you or your relationship together. Personally, I also like keeping our relationship private and I may tell my partner that its not necessary to flex me on socmed, but being flex once in awhile by someone you deem special will really tickle your heart.
It is okay to me. Because in my case it is not that frequent that she is flexing me in socmed. When she flexes me it is not like "basta may mai-post lang". In that case, I think I prefer lowkey which is actually what we are now.
A strong news that is very real and strong in your life. It is willing to participate with you for free if you want to communicate through social media.
Thank you @hiveph ❤❤
No.
Tagging @adamada
BWAHAHAHA bakit mo tinatag self mo LOL
ayaw mo fineflex kasi andami nila hahahaha
Nagsariling sikap na lang sya. Ahahahaha. Pano ka ife-flex edi nag away away ang mga chikabebes mo. Ahahahaha
I'm happy if my partner posts about me on social media, however, if I don't post it, that's okay because for me, love is present in the heart and doesn't have to be shown off. Everything is up to my partner, the important thing is that he is always happy and comfortable being my life partner
Next question please, di maka relate. EME! HAHA
pero if ever No, I prefer a private relationship to prevent toxicity in social media, however, the biggest flex that I can do for her is to give her unconditional love na hindi pa niya nararanasan sa buong buhay niya lol 🤣
@jeaneth08 Hbu?
Hi Mon! Dito ba ako mag answer sa reply or doon sa main post? Siguro, the biggest flex I can do for my jowa would be giving my all to save the relationship no matter what happens. Para walang regrets in the end kase pag alam mo sa sarili mo na you gave your all, di kana talo don. Wala kang what ifs.
Baled dun sa mainpost Jean. Hehe, same us ng approach when it comes to that :)
Tagalog:
Gusto ko bang fline flex ako ng jowa ko sa Social Media? Aba Syempre naman, kung physical features kasi, lamang na lamang ang jowa ko sa akin at pwedeng sabihin ng iba na hindi kami bagay, pero on the other hand, mapapa isip din ang mga tao kung ano talaga nagustuhan sakin ng jowa ko.
Hindi naman sa may insecurities ako sa buhay pero kapag kasi maganda jowa at flinex yung pangit na pag mumukha mo sa Social Media, nakaka proud yun. at parang sinasabi na din nya sa mundo na" Ito ang True Love!" hahaha!!!
At eto naman ang mga kilala ko na walang sawang fline flex ang mga jowa nila sa buhay. @suteru @eustace-kidd
English:
Do I want my partner to flaunt me on Social Media? Well, of course, if we're talking about physical features, my partner is way ahead of me and others might say we're not a good match. But on the other hand, people will also wonder what my partner really sees in me.
It's not that I'm insecure about myself, but when you have a beautiful partner and they flaunt you on Social Media despite your not-so-great looks, that's something to be proud of. It's like they're telling the world, 'This is True Love!' Hahaha!!!
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