Understanding How You Can Unf*ck Yourself This 2024

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"New Year, New Me!"


This is the most common saying every first day of any year, and it will probably be there for all eternity of life. Personally, when I say "New" and incorporate it with "Me", that means "Change", which would mean total self-transformation.

In this world, in all ways Change is both constant and inevitable. More than knowing it, we should also understand it. Our lives are just as same as the changing of seasons. There is a time for Summer, there is a time for Winter. A time of drought a time of harvest. Tides will be low and at times it will be high.

What am I pointing out here?


Short answer, No, we can't. There will always be circumstances that are sometimes hard to process, times we plan out something and doesn't work the way we wanted. Times an unforeseen event occurs that we least expected and still it happens. I believe the best thing we can do is change our perception and reaction to things that are far from our advantage.


It's all about perspective.


Unpacking before Unf*cking.

I believe that wishing and wanting to change ourselves is a good thing, and the fact that we desire to change is a great starting point. So how can we change?


Create a System.


I made this method with an acronym of AAHH, which seems like screaming in panic but it's not. I swear to God. 🤣 In this way, we can check ourselves hopefully know more about ourselves, and be able to create a stronger mind for ourselves and move forward to our system for a better and sensible life. ✨

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One of the best critiques we can have is ourselves most especially in the aspect of personal and professional growth. Evaluating ourselves for our strengths, weaknesses, skills, and goals.

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Probably the hardest thing to do for anyone would be to acknowledge the reality of the situation without judgment or resistance.

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Creating a new habit, a brand new routine for ourselves, if last year's system didn't work, tweak, or recreate. Learn new things, and develop characteristics.

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Hard work is the persistent effort and dedication invested in achieving a goal or overcoming challenges. The determination, the willingness to adapt to change. Beating luck with work.


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When I decided to create this account, my goal was to inspire to uplift people, share my experiences, and hear from others to learn from them and vice versa, understand life, to improve it for myself and others. Along the way, I decided to associate myself with different individuals with weak minds, bodies, and souls to see what could transpire, either lift them or get eaten and be like them. I have a destructive personality but am hopeful. I believe I was able to help uplift some, but not all, unfortunately, some are resistant to change, but I don't blame them, and I don't feel bad about them, at the end of the day "To each his own", and the truth be, I feel bad for myself, because in the process of trying to handout help, I wasn't able to help myself and do things favorable for me. So this year, that'll be all changed. I am grateful for things that happened and so with the things that didn't happen, for all the people I shared my experience good or bad, and for the things I did, and didn't do. Let's all move forward!

This year I'm choosing me, my peace, my pace, my time. I'll be resistant to negativity and all the eerie complaints. I will respectfully shut things down with my silence, I wouldn't argue with the little things that are not progressive. I would associate myself more with like-minded individuals that can put values in my life, and me to them. I'll do more work financially, mentally, physically and do my very best to speak the good news.

One of the things I love and enjoy is Stand-up comedy, I've been reading and researching about it since last year, and for decades I have been wishing to be one! 🤣

  • Public speaking
  • Strong material that would crush
  • The Anxiety of Standing in front of random strangers

I can only imagine the pressure! 🤣 but I secretly write my material and slowly try to be in that scene, and who knows, by any time this year I will develop the ultimate balls of steel and guts of the hardest deeznuts! to be able to do it 🤣🤞 So yeah that's one thing I would one to manifest out of many. So 2024 LFG!!!!


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 11 months ago  

Eyy, Good luck with your goals this year, Mebu!
Can't wait to see you perform as a stand-up comedian in the future, invite mo kami ah ✨
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hahaha spontaneously talking to random people wherever is a training, I'm hopeful, but i still need lots of guts 🙈🙈🙈

madali lang yan I'm using figma but doable sya sa canva 😛

Good luck mebs, new year new you

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This is also how I approach 2024. I need to put myself first one of these days than before. It's me who need help and I can't just put them aside all the time.

I feel bad for myself, because in the process of trying to handout help, I wasn't able to help myself and do things favorable for me.

Anyway, good luck on new you! Do you have any favorite stand-up comedian?

'Hero complex' as I used to call it. pretty much combination of passion and lots of empathy cause to try and be more for others. I hope all the best for you too! ✨

Are you a fan of stand-up too? My all-time favorite would be dave chappelle, for what it's worth special, there's also Shane gillis, Mark Normand, Bert Kreisher, Nate Jackson, new guards and upcoming too like Carlos barbosa, Andrea Jin. Idk probably love them all. 😂

btw, I came across one of your post recently, and I was wondering if you're filipino 😅

haha yeah! it takes a while to get out of that. Whenever I have that tendency, I paused and talk to myself, " don't eat more than you can chew"

I am lowkey a fan of stand-up, it's my guilty pleasure haha. The old ones that I love is same as you are + Peter Russel. There's also Jimmy O. Yang. I also actually enjoy Jokoy before he gets famous haha. The new ones is Jason Cheny, he's gaining more popularity too. Jose Sarduy is also hilarious and good looking :'D

I am not a filipino but trust me, I heard that a lot IRL hahaha.

ooh I love Russell Peters too! xobile! classic 😂 I think I've seen a Jimmy O Yang special before, not really a fan of Jokoy, there's one before him that I like Rex Navarete, I'll look into Jason cheny. There's also one Malaysian comic who cross-dress I think his name is Kumar something, hilarious!

I had to finish the video before sending my reply 😂 thanks for the video thats a good laugh!

I'm guessing you're Morena (tanned skin tone) and asian too that's why 😆✨

So you want to be a comedian. I guess you have sense of humor so carry mo yan.. Good luck sa goals... Pero sana all na lang sa abs.. Sana ma achieve ko yan this year haha

they say laughter is the best medicine, and I just love seeing people happy, the vibe, and radiating energy of it is just what everybody need. so sana... three finger crossed including my toenail🤞🤞🤞 😂

San ba yang abs na yan may kumakalat ba ng litrato ko na hindi ko alam? haha

and I wish all the best for you as well! travel well, sana ma visit mo ang china, conspiracy says may pyramid din sila don. 😱

kaya mo yan mebs!

no harm in trying 😌

 11 months ago (edited) 

Your reference comes from a book, right? The first self-help book that I had read is Unfck Yourself, I just forgot who the author is, but I still have the e-book copy in my google drive. Anyways, good luck to your goals. I'm genuinely rooting for you!

Actually no, I haven't read the book. the concept of Self assessment, acceptance, habit and hardwork is based from combination of Leadership training with francis Kong years back, and teaching from one of the church service I attended 😅

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