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RE: You Could've Just Said You Wanted the Votes

in Marites8 months ago

Shoot maybe this guy should buy a lottery ticket than complain when his numbers don't come up. It's basically the same thing he is doing now by not engaging with others and giving effort to build himself first.

We're so used to instant gratification that it somehow is expected when it comes to networking online, and am like, that isn't how genuine relationships are built. It can even take weeks, months to years to be friends with someone and it's not just your own pace but the other person as well. This one just wanted the immediate gratification without doing the work.

Filipinos take a while to warm up to strangers but that's a given by cultural differences and trying to not to make initial bad impressions. It's not that we're unfriendly, some may just be too shy or worried to start off on the wrong foot. There are bad eggs, those happen too. Had you stop showing up, nothing would've happened and people notice, they just don't really make a fuzz about it. You're welcome, you deserve the acknowledgement.