I would say, it is a very sensitive and difficult subject for many, many people. Especially for those who are sensitive, empathetic and most of all - have low selfesteem.
Such people are often dominated by others against their will, locked in golden cages.
For me, personally an interesting kind of domination is authority. And I am not talking about imposed authorities, such as parents or the government. I am talking about authorities whose dominance we recognise, because they have earned it. For instance: a professor at a university who, because of his dominance, his huge, overwhelming knowledge, we respect and listen to what he has to say.
I think, that this kind of domination is not only harmless, but also desirable too. The mentor - student relationship is very important, especially at the beginning of our path, when we are not yet formed as a people, and we are exposed to bad influences from our surroundings.
Really interesting article, I get what you meant, when you say
I'm someone who likes to do things at my own pace and if any insecure and prideful human tries to change that in the name of "dominance", I get so pissed
I am getting stressed and frustrated easily, and need my space to figure my own way to deal with given task/problem.
Most times, such people want to scream but can't find the right words to mumble out. Within them, they know that such dominance is not right, but due to low self esteem, there's nothing much they can do.
It's worthy to note that when such people eventually emerge from the shackles of the dominance, they become entirely different.
Every one would want to know that they have a certain degree of dominance accompanied with respect. It's totally harmless but good for peaceful cohabitation.
Thank you so much for your amazing comment ✨. I really appreciate it.
@strega.azure
Wow, didn't see that coming! All thanks to @wongi, that was very interesting article!
Thank you so much for reading ✨🤗