You hit the nail on the head with
slowly grinding it into something.
It takes a lot of hard work, persistence, producing good content (I.e. interesting engaging and/or well put together), and also commenting, building relationships and making connections. Investing in Hive helps as well - powering up and demonstrating that you're in it for the long haul not just to cash out ever sent for a quick buck. I hope that helps. 😁