Love is beautiful but could be the worst thing that can happen to you if the one you desire doesn't feel the same way towards you, unfortunately out of millions of people, the heart tends to grow fond of the one who is not interested in us, it is heart wrecking, thinking about it is excruciating...
It was a cold night, could not feel the presence of family and friends around me, the only thing i could feel was my heart in deep pains, i could only think of the one my heart yearns for, dinner was served, it looks sumptuous but as i was about taking a spoon, i was flooded with her memories again, lost appetite and tears flow freely down my cheeks, the hotness of the tears burns through my skin and my eyes was hurting but i don't care, rejection hurt more!
I have never felt so lonely, i could not bear to tell any one what my heart is going through, climbed unto the bed and pretend to sleep while i drench the pillow with my sorrowful tears, God took pity on me and i slept for few hours, dream is better than reality and i never want to wake up but then unfortunately i did in the middle of the night, just as if her memories was haunting me, i remembered her again! it was as if my heart wanted to burst, i rushed out of the room and went to sit quietly at the balcony
Just me alone, sitting outside on a cold night, i was able to cry to my heart content, there was no one to comfort me, i remember the sweet memories, when she used to be my best friend, we do all things together, walk the street together and stay together so late in the night, those happy memories only make me cry more!
Amidst it all, i never blame her or hate her for rejecting me, all on my mind was what i did wrong, what could i have said that made her reject me, probably i didn't ask her out the right way, or i asked her out too early? all doesn't matter anymore, i just want to forget her and stop feeling this pains, i am losing my mind...... Help!
Love, it crazy mhen. I can strongly relate,the days,weeks and months to get over it.
It takes years if you don't have someone to share with, thank God for my mum I was able to get over mine in a short period of time.
You are very lucky to have someone that help you get past it , some bears everything alone but at the all heart is going to heal.. and love will find us 😊😊
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Love is sweet when you meet the right person for you, but bitter when you meet the wrong person, you'll have to blame yourself for loving too much. One sided love can be so painful, it will leave you with nothing but a wounded heart, but the truth is that, you have to find the time to heal and move on.
This is indeed and interesting read 😊
yea amidst all the pains, one need to learn to move on, the heart heals but it takes lot of time, for some people months but some might take years..
The length of healing depends on how deep the wound is. Over-loving a person isn't good. Someone may not recover from it. It took me more than 10 years to recover. Every time I remember it, I still feel the pain though not as painful as before.
you are so right, mine took me 6 years before i can really let go and move on
If you're not married yet, I think it's easier. I had a prior disappointment with a girl when I was still single. She just wanted to play and finally, I decided to give up. The pain only lasted for a day. I realized later that I didn't really love her. I just courted her because I want to marry somebody. It's good that she turned me down. After a few days, her new boyfriend apologized to me and I told him I am fine. When I was alone in my room later that day, I forced myself to cry and let out the pain, but instead, I laughed. 🤣
😂😂😂 the crying part is always funny lol , yea I have cried too so yea I understand how you felt. Glad they are all funny memories now 😂
It was then that I realized that I didn't really love the girl. I told myself, "this is crazy!" and had a sound sleep that night. 🤣
Thank you for sharing the deepest of your feelings. It goes in waves and relying on those who are next to you, as well as, seeing the small bright things in life, will make you feel complete again.
yes loving friends ease the pains, thanks!
The heart aches when love is not replicated or lost. But one shouldn't loose hope or give up on love. Have an open mind, healing will come and love will find you.
Yea life goes on and everyone will meet their soul mate at the right time … thanks !
You are welcome. 😁
welldone burlarj... heartbreak is quite real..as sweet as love is, heartbreak is just as painful as that..looking forward to seeing you more on listnerds
So true, the heart will heal and it is going to found love
When people whom you love walk out of your life without any explanations, you first blame yourself but overtime you realise it wasn't you. They just didn't appreciate you enough to stay and frankly that's their loss.
Losing someone you love definitely hurts and that hurt can last a long time. I still think about my first girlfriend and that was 60 years ago. Thanks for sharing on ListNerds.
wow that is so long ago, yea the heart never forget