Usually, when people say Sorry for something wrong they did to me, I forgive them easily because they realized what they did, and that's pretty enough for me than to seek revenge. Me a good guy? Yeah, I am. I think so at least, not everyone can feel that about themselves as some of us might be sleeping on the pile of wrong deeds. After all, we all know our deeds, whether anyone knows about them or not.
So where was I? Wrongs with me. You know, some people never learn from their mistakes. Even though I am pretty bad at it, I often make the same mistakes. Well, now I am improving from that situation and that's for sure. Improvements are always welcoming, that seek appreciation. Nobody gets to perfection on the next jump after a failure, there is always a gradual path to reach. But when you don't see that improvement coming and repetitive mistakes that are causing harm to someone else are kinda bad, very bad, and I get offended on those pretty easily.
So the first time mistake was acceptable, though I was disheartened I did forgive and moved on. A few days went well, things started to run smoothly, and then the same mistake, the same fight, the same arguments and that's how things were to get worse. I still remember the person how close we were but these disputes never sorted, even today I saw that habit coming. So no change! Sorry means nothing if there is no change.
It's not like we made a mistake and one sorry will heal it properly, it covers up but the lesson one should learn and implement on themselves to bring the change is all we need to do on every apology we pass. Sorry should be the assurance to seek forgiveness and to determine ourselves not to repeat it again. Instead, try to bring the actual improvements. In my life, there are some incidents too where I asked for an apology, and when I did I asked those from my heart and never repeated them nor I will ever do them again. They accepted my apologies and forgave and I learnt from them, perfect equations that make things beautiful in out life.
Actually, these vary from person to person. There are some people who would never negotiate for things, they will always seek the exact revenge to satisfy themselves. I have seen many, and also I have seen them getting stuck on a point just because of these behaviors of theirs. If we don't practice to show love to people when they seek for it then it's scary, everyone will be heartless. And we don't imagine for such a society for sure.
A society filled with ruthless humans would be deadly. It's simple to forgive but some people have trained their minds to the point that if revenge isn't taken, they can never be at peace. Whenever I find myself in a position to forgive, I do so immediately even though sometimes we may have been hurt so bad but after forgiving the individual, I don't think I'll be open for him or her to walk in and hurt me again.
We do forgive but the point is some people don't learn from it, they keep repeating the same mistake without being grateful to the last forgiveness.
Yeah, things hardly remain the same, at least a dent is a must.
Yeah, some do realize but don't get a hold on to that realization and do the same again and again. Thank you for stopping by.