So I saw a post in a group calling men that take their wife's opinions "goat"
I'm not against the post but I shake my head.
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There is this man in my neighborhood who was a serious drunkard. Dude was working at ministry of work but seeing the state of his house, wife and children, you will think he is jobless.
His house was half completed despite the good paying job he did. The wife is a petty trader, she would have been a house wife if not for intervention from her family asking him to empower the women by opening her a shop. The children be looking tattered and attending a cheap private school.
Every month ending after dude collected salary, his friends will visit and he will go out with them in the name of enjoyment. He spent his salary on drinking and eating dog meat and came back late in the night drunk.
One would hear the wife screaming at him to stop wasting money with his friends and save his money or use it to complete his house and do better things for himself. He will rain curses on the wife asking her why she should tell him what to do.
Last year February, this man was sacked from ministry of work for an offence I don't know and guess what? All his friends left him. He didn't save money and had nothing to start a business with. One of his friend who is a proprietor of a nursery School needed a PA, the man applied and his friend boldly turned him down with a lame excuse that he was too old for such position. He started depending on his wife business, the same business he didn't have interest when she begged for money to start and also he is doing menial jobs for people that should be serving him.
This days he despise alcohol and people call him woman wrapper cus he doesn't go against his wife's order.
Most men at the top are where they are because of taking their women's opinions. I've seen men who didn't make it when they were single becoming stable when a woman enters their life. Yes, some women are open doors to men.
I'm not saying women don't mare men, majority of them do but a woman that loves you can never wish to mare you. You know she loves you, take her opinions and drop the silly pride..
A lovestory is a partnership. And men who choose to blindly ignore their partner's feedback are ignorant and weak. Just like in business, you have to make the partnership fair for both parties in order to succeed.
Yes that is how it suppose to be but nowadays people influence are now the one controlling people especially men. I want to feel among and lastly they will reject such person during trouble time.
I agree. A true man will always respect his lady and value her opinions. Always
That is what we all pray for, that true man that will always respect and value our own opinion. No woman what to see her man been mislead. We want the best for them
I agree girl👍
I don't always take my wife's advice. Sometimes, there are little details of a situation that she doesn't understand and I'm not sure how to articulate. I also try to keep emotions out of my decision making. But I always listen to what she has to say, and consider it. Sometimes, she's right!
Yes, sometimes it is good to hear them out, not compulsory you here but seriously you will see one thing or the other to gain from the advice
It's common all over the world to not listen to the wife. People have nature to not get opinions from inferior. So the mindset to think superior should change first.
Thanks for sharing your view!