when it rains it pours
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Don't worry, you didn't miss it, I just didn't write about mom. You know, I was su much involved, and stressed about other's health issues, and it brought me here when I need help myself. When I was told a preliminary diagnosis and saw the reaction of my doctor, I was scared do death. When tests didn't find cancer, I reevaluated everything... And actually this was like a shakeup for me, and a reminder that there is always a good things happening to me every day. This is what it means to me live for today.
So, I still do my best, but try to focus on good things.
Speaking about my mom, she had 2 main problems: her vessels and arm. As it was I who arranged everything and payed for, it was up to me what surgery to do first. I took an advice of a good heart surgeon and we operated her arm first as the pain is not bearable. And those doctors who operated told me that her heart is really in a bad condition, and it should be a heart surgery first, but anyway we need to "fix" her heart asap. But my mom is a very proud stubborn woman with a bad temper. And the surgery was put on ice. First, it should be a stenting vessels of the heart (quite simple, and not so expensive as well). When I finally persuaded her to take my help, the coronography showed stending will not help and she needs bypassing. This is quite another amount of money, and there's no a doctor in her hometown that can make it. When I finally found a doctor that I trust and for a reasonable price, she got a covid and ended up in hospital. The worst, she is diabetic and 77 y.o., and everything is dangerous for her. When she got better, New Year came, then Orthodox Christmas, you know, none what to spend holidays in a hospital. And then she had a heart attack, and I couldn't wait any longer, so was it urgent or not I can't tell. Literally not, but in her circumstances, as she lives 600 km from me, urgent would be too late.
Now she's in the hospital in her hometown on rehabilitation. So things aren't too bad. To be honest, it is a half of year that I am prepared to the worst.
Thank you so much my dear Nina for your care, and sorry if it was, you know, "too much". It's a real wonder how sometime life send you a friend from the other side of the world. My appreciation is beyond words. God bless you!
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