An Argument With Him.

I could have made this post yesterday but that was when my story was happening. I wanted to write an article but due to my anger and mood, I was just going to ruin it all if I had chosen to write an article.
My relationship went so well until I cried last night but some good music interfered and I was fine again.
I had a long chat with my man last night about his work, life and our relationship.
I was about to close from work when I saw him post a picture he took with a girl three years ago and wrote “My Shayla”. What could that mean? He must be having something with her.

Wizkid’s Turn on the lights was the first song I listened to after seeing that post. My man and I had a quarrel on Sunday and if I decide to raise this with him again, I may look like a problematic girlfriend so I kept mute.
I kept listening to this song but the lyrics of the sobg shows how much the artiste loves his girlfriend but she still didn’t do right by him. At the end, I could not control my emotions so I started texting him and sent him all sorts of messages. I called him names but my calm man was simply looking at me and letting me shout all I want and when I’m calm, he knows I will call him baby again.

While sending him all sorts of texts, I was busy listening to songs that tells how much people trust, love and treat their partner well but the partner becomes ungrateful. I felt he was an ungrateful one at that time.
I was crying, typing and singing the song at the same time. Ayra Starr said all I wanted to in this song and yes, it even boosted my anger because that was what I wanted.

Finally, he was able to calm me down coupled with the fact that I was having a headache already. I got too angry and when I’m too angry, I am likely to lose some energy. I was still the one who went back to tell him that I was having some headache.
I thought he will tell me to get out but he’s just a perfect gentleman. Instead, he told me to take my drugs, eat and sleep.

Why do I feel that’s an emotional blackmail? Despite how much I stressed and yelled at him, he still didn’t get angry at me at all.

I found this which is a perfect song of regret. Chester See wrote this song well. I opened my Shazam application and was singing along. I told him how much I loved him and told him not to ever talk to any other girl again.
I know that’s not possible though but I didn’t just want him to cheat on me or love another girl like he loves me.

We got the issue resolved and yeah, we’re good again. We’re back as lovers.

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Oh well, he is wrong for posting another girl and also using sweet names for her when he knows he has a gf who would be viewing his status, if you were the one that post a guy and use a loving name for him, would he still remain calm, people should learn to treat others how they want to be treated.

Exactly!
Thank you so much