Unfortunately, he doesn't stop to think about whether his actions hurt, minimize or overstep the healthy boundaries of others.
That's the difference between healthy narcissism and just creepy narcissists, as experts define those two. We all need to put ourselves first to an extent (if you're not well, you can't help others be well either). But we need to consider (and most of us do by default) what the impact will be.
Can you love someone and at the same time treat them with hatred? Can you care for someone and at the same time be their tormentor? Can I say I am sincere when I lie and hide things from those who care about me?
No. I wish there was more to add to that, but just no. You can't. I don't think so, at least.
You, on the other hand, are a wonderful and kind person. and that shines through every post :)
🥺🥺🥺🥺 Aw thank you my dear Honey. It's like that, we can't give to others what we don't already have in us.
Those are things that have been going around in my head for a while. I have to keep learning to take care of my well being too. I think it's also something that will increase my maturity as a human being. Sending you a big hug 💟