Stable mind for not be distracted

in The MINIMALIST13 days ago

We are humans, and we have emotions. Sometimes, we become emotionally unstable because we are affected by others' anxiety. Such a situation is not good for us and can become an obstacle to our goals because unstable emotions can distract us. I think everyone has their own ways to deal with it. Let me share my way.

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I am a straightforward person, and I always try to be mindful of my own business. I don't think too much about others unless they are very close to me. I have very few close people, and because of it, there are very few people who can affect me emotionally. I believe that everybody does not deserve my concern, and whatever is going on in their life is none of my business. It's better not to think about those unimportant people and their life difficulties.

Let's talk about those people who are important to me. Everyone has their own problem to face, and facing anxiety is not surprising. Naturally, my close people can share it with me without any hesitation. Sometimes I need to help them to deal with their difficulties. There is no benefit of mine, but I feel it's my responsibility within a limit. But I am well aware of my limitations and capabilities also. I am not capable of solving their problems all the time. I don't waste my effort, which is not possible for me. Trying to do so is not effective, but it may affect me. In such a situation I just try to give them a little motivation only. I just don't think too much when it is not within my capabilities. I know that I am not God, and I can't solve the problem of them all the time.

Naturally, I am emotionally very stable, and other's anxiety and problems rarely make an impact on my mind. I think because of my emotional stability, my close people can share their problems without hesitation, and they expect some good suggestions from me. I am very much clear about my goals, and I make sure that other's issues do not distract me on the way to my goals. If for any reason something starts to trouble me, I become alert about it, and I don't hesitate to become selfish in that case because my goals and ambitions are the most important thing to me. I believe other issues are not worthy enough to distract me from my goal.

I have a stable mind, but sometimes some issues appear, and that troubles me emotionally. Even if I want to escape, it's impossible sometimes. But I don't think that is enough to make trouble with my goals. I don't know if it's good or bad for me, but from an earlier time, I treated myself as a robot. Robots always deliver the best performance, and there are no emotions. Although I have emotions, I can dominate my emotions easily, and even in my worst situation, I can deliver a similar performance when it comes to my work activities related to my goals.

In my opinion, life is very simple, and I try to see life from a positive perspective all the time. To achieve my goals, sometimes I want to be selfish, and sometimes I need to let something go because I am not capable of solving everything. My best thing is I remain emotionally unaffected by the anxiety of others. Think practical and simple don't allow me to worry too much about other things.



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 13 days ago  

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