Hello @Rayt2 thanks for inviting me to participate in this community. I really enjoyed your post and I confess that you made me smile in most of it. Well, now tell us that you take seeing yourself handsome very seriously hahaha. I have a 14-year-old teenage son who is still in the *"it doesn't matter what I look like" phase, but his dad and I are working on it. I differ from you a little bit, and I think that counts because I'm a woman. Normally women are the judges of how handsome a man looks. For me cleanliness is essential, especially of the body. I love the smell of soap or cleanliness. In my city it is very hot and I sweat a lot. That's why when I'm hot and a recently bathed person approaches that for me is super attractive and pleasant, be it a man or a woman and if it is perfumed on the side better. I like the smell of men's perfume better. I tell my son that hygiene is fundamental, bathe frequently several times a day if necessary, use deodorant, brush teeth, have clean and well-groomed hair and nails, a clean face too, clean and matched clothes Another thing to emphasize is the shoes, but in the type I would prefer that they were clean.
I am more in favor of the man who does not dedicate so much time to the care of his skin and appearance, but in his hygiene in general, good taste in clothes, who always tries to have a good haircut, for me that is enough. Of course exercise is vital, especially to be healthy and have energy, but I agree with you that a smile is one of the best accessories a person can have and also good manners. Thanks again for including me 😊.
Thanks for reading and approving most of my points @marbrym lol and I agree with you even if you do not agree with me on any point in my post because I can't understand how women feel, at least not all women lol. I am sure will teach your son the importance of everything that you consider he must, my best wishes.
@Rayt2 and yes, the truth is that I agree with you on many points. Thank you again. I will keep reading you 😎