KISS #148: Light walking

in The MINIMALIST6 days ago (edited)


Image from my personal gallery

Light walking

Nowadays it is easier to fall into the temptation of having, than to stop having. You have to have the willpower to refuse to buy what you don't need: we live exposed to an advertising bombardment in which the note is to consume, to buy, to have the latest on the market. That's why when we meet people who live happily with the essentials, we believe, in principle, that they are crazy.

For example the case of my friend Anibal and La Nena, a Colombian couple living on the Venezuelan coast. The first time I had the pleasure of visiting their house, I was really impressed: not only by how little there was between those lime-painted walls, but also by how happy they were.

I remember that my boyfriend and I had gone to spend a weekend at that house, on the recommendation of other friends who had told us about that place. They were the ones who warned us that there was no internet in the area, but they did not give us more details about the place.

So we were very surprised when we found a house with few things, most of them self-made and with marine materials. Only a few rooms had electricity and although that area is very hot, there was no air conditioning (we slept in rooms with large windows from where we could see and hear the sea). They also used sea water for almost everything they did. They had a very nice garden where they had everything and they bought the fish from a man who passed by daily, so they did not need a refrigerator.

Obviously, that can become a problem for those of us who are used to “certain comforts”: to live with certain things, that when we don't have them, we feel that we are missing a hand, for example.

I remember that living without Internet, without cell phones, without cold water to drink, without artificial ventilation, for two days was, at first, agony, then, at the end of the experience, I felt that everything is a matter of getting used to it. We get used to having certain things, which we think are fundamental to be able to live. And we don't.

When I saw that house I asked myself: “How can people live in the 21st century as if they were living in prehistoric times? They have nothing. They must be unhappy. Hahahaha. Nothing could be further from the truth. If there are happy people, it is Anibal and La Nena. They don't pay rent, they swim in the sea every day, they meet to talk every night and they are far from the nets. The laughter on their faces speaks of perfect happiness.

Our consumerist vision, makes us believe that we need many things and it turns out that those things can be even a burden in our existence. The more we have, the more we are not more, because it is the objects that possess us. When in order to be, we must have, then the value is not in us. Sometimes it is worth walking light like Anibal and La Nena.

The images are from my personal gallery and the text was translated with Deepl

Thank you for reading and commenting. Until a future reading, friends

Sort:  
 6 days ago  

6.jpg

This image belongs to millycf1976 and was manipulated using Canva.

Thank you very much for your support and vote. It is a real pleasure to write in this community. Blessings

 6 days ago  

a house with few things, most of them self-made and with marine materials

It's great to enter homes like these. They are filled with character and show the personality of the occupant.

I agree, that we get used to many comforts and sometimes take them for granted. However, when they are taken away, we find that with a small shift, we adjust and get along just fine.
small KISS Gif.gif

I enjoyed it 😉 Thanks for your #KISS


lips sealed

speaking lips

Yes, I agree with you! Although it was a small house, it seemed spacious and a very special light came in. I don't know if that light was from outside, or from those two friends who looked like peace made people. Greetings and thanks for your comment

Oh yes that reminds me of some villagers I knew when I worked in Africa.
The older I get then the less I want, I do know I still have more than I need, but it is much much less than when I was 30 for example. Yes being happy is what counts. Great post Nancy and had me imagining some things, a great big hug from me Nancy

I hope you have imagined a lot of good things, my friend. I send you a hug from Venezuela.

Oh trust me I did!

Well as long as there are wide open windows with the sound of the sea, I could adapt. Your friends are brave to live the way they chose and not have to conform to the standards of the world!
When I spoke to my one staff member who helped build a home for his mother, I was shocked that it was only one big room at this stage, with no running water nor electricity. Yet his mother is thankful as it's better than the room she had at her parents' family home!
We always want too much!
Your friends are lucky👌

Yes, we would be surprised how many people can live with so little and are happy. Sometimes I think it's like going back to childhood: being amazed by everything and happy with little. I have friends who have a lot and have never been happy like Anibal and la Nena. Thanks for your comment, @lizelle. Hugs