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RE: People Pleasing - An Aspect Of My Life I Want To Say NO To

If this is the name, I am also guilty of this... I just can't help it and most times, I trade the situations with silence

I have a PTSD though...don't ask me what it is🙄

Although I am still trying to find a balance, I think it will be better if everyone could be a little this way.... That way, I'll be happier knowing that someone I'm sacrificing a lot for can actually sacrifice half of that even if not to me but to someone else

As for myself, I won't lie about it not giving me internal joy when I offer my help to people and bear the consequences on my own end but I still won't because of these negative impacts stop assisting when I can

My mouth will even say YES before I process the situation sadly

I'll leave by saying, if happiness is among the Triad of what you just listed that the only way to get real happiness and joy is from sacrificing yourself for others....
Not dying on the cross oh😂😂😂
But I believe you understand what I mean

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Haha I understand totally
I guess we can't fight it or let go of such thoughts about helping people against our will.

What's PTSD? 🙄

Thank God you understand.

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder... A spectrum that affects us after going through a particular experience and we don't want to encounter such again in life

Oh I see 🤔

Yes.... Don't see further 😂