I see you have the habit of dropping a link to your post in comnents. It may seem like a good idea to you, till it backfires and you find yourself heavily downvoted for comment spamming.
You have two choices here. You stop this and act like a respectful users who comment because they are interested in the topic of the post. Or continue spamming everyone with unsolicited links and suffer the consequences.
I'm going to ignor this for now, but you're on my shitlist and the minute I see you drop the next link to someone, you have my full attention and it's not going to be nice.
Have a nice day.