That is exactly the right frame of mind! Same here, to a lesser degree. I am applying for jobs across our country, so if I find anything, I will also need to travel, and with my fiance still not being able to move with me, it takes a toll on one's positive thinking! Sometimes you really just want to settle down and the uncertainty drains you.
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I know and understand fully.
You said it, it is the uncertainty that drains one.
One day we both will settle.
How long until she can move with you?
In our worst case scenario, hubby will move alone for work to another country I can’t move to (easily). Sometimes you have to do what you have to do…
Positive thoughts do help 😊 even though hard sometimes.
Same here, as my work is a 1200km away from my fiance. So we have to manage, and negative thoughts only help destroy the relationship. Been there done that. It does not help.
Plans are constantly changing, so I really do not know yet. I have some interesting work that might plan out for me, but that means moving again. So, for now, we are also in the air about when things will settle down.
But positive thoughts!
It is a long distance. Luckily you can see each other and manage.
Yes, me too… it doesn’t help.
I feel you. The world and everything around us seems to move and change quickly lately. Let’s see what happens. Crossing my fingers for you something will work out.
Take care!
I am sure it will work out! Almost always the plans we draw up get ruined by life and her own change! So we can just stay positive.
I so know… 🤗🤗