It's always a pleasure reading your posts. Thought provoking. This one was pain provoking but at the same time made me relive some of the good time.
And yes you are definitely overthinking about it. Love is just there. Its like salt without it the food feels bland and excess of it ruins it completely. Love is looking at the foggy photos, appreciating the moments you lived and deleting/ saving it. Of course I am not talking about photo.
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Thank you for delving into my post:) Love is such a juicy topic...people have written for eons about it yet nobody has certainty about anything when it comes to love.
I get your point. We keep memories in our mind. In my experience I have felt that the more resistant you are to those memories the harder it is to let go. Of course that some things can linger, but for how long determines the amount of suffering.
Its like salt without it the food feels bland and excess of it ruins it completely.
I wonder...is it possible to have too much love that it hurts? I don't know the answer to this either. When it comes to kids I know that there is no such thing as too much love. Maybe we can apply it to adults? Perhaps what is too much is not love, it is attachment. And oh my what another juicy topic that is!
Are you sure about that? I have seen parents spoiling their kids because they love them a bit too much.
And the kids lack discipline because of it. You know what's funny, A parent who loves their kid would give them an ass-whooping of a lifetime. 😂
I think there is a correct qty of love is need for a wife to loving otherwise she would be nosey, and needy. You need the correct qty of love for a husband to be loving otherwise he would be an obsessive one, A loving mother may appear as a control freak and a loving father may appear as manipulative guy.
I hope that makes sense.
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We can only wonder as nobody knows the answer.
Hahahha I have opened a Pandora's box with this topic. Guess what...you're right too😆
Too much of anything can cause issues. Perhaps this might be the case with children? It also depends on the love language. Someone can say that they love someone a lot yet the other person feels none of that because they do not receive what they need. So maybe the spoiled children are actually frustrated children because deep down they do not receive the kind of love they truly need. Love is complicated, right?
A controlling mother or father is bad...and most of them do not know that they are like that, for some control is love