lol well, learning the hard way is also a way of learning 😄. Yeah, I wonder about this and I wanted to write about it. In a way I think it's a bit of the community's fault by promoting the Come, blog and earn crypto for free!
As I've said in other posts: TANSTAAFL (There ain't no such thing as a free lunch)
We've got to provide value to the other person and then we might get value in return.
We've got to learn how to read people and see if we can figure out what's valuable to them.