Whoa you’re having another kiddo?! Congrats man! That’s amazing I wasn’t up to date on that, sorry!
I hear you man, it sucks being away from the family for sure. I’m going to have to do that for a while soon and I’m going to miss seeing my son every day but I’ll still get plenty of time, just not the every day stuff I am used to now.
It’s rough but we do what we have to do and that’s the important thing!
I think personally and professionally we have to do what is best for us, and that also means doing it right by your employer you’re leaving. You never know when you’ll need them again in the future for a reference or something. It’s best not to burn a bridge unnecessarily I think!