The Wrench

in Rant, Complain, Talk6 days ago

Hi fellow Hiveians,

Today I wanted to talk about sickness and how it really throws things off for a while!

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The Wrench

I had all kinds of plans of doing extensive amounts of writing and other things to get caught up, and back on top of things. Then we got a wrench thrown in!

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Kids, they are just magnets for germs, aren't they? Lol. My son sadly recently came down with quite a cold. I don't know if it's the flu or a regular old cold but damn it, he's a kid that when he's sick he's a miserable pain in the ass. That's said with the most loving conviction from a parent.. hahaha

This really messed up a bunch of things but that's okay at the end of the day. I have the job of taking care of the little dude when he's like this as my wife has other things going on that prevents it. I've been lucky so far in that I haven't caught the affliction that he's got which is surprising. I've been making sure to do a lot of preventative steps like reducing sugar as much as possible from my diet. Sugar is a big contributor to these things despite what a lot of people may forget or ignore. The bacteria feeds off that shit!

This has been a few days of up and down, but mostly rough nights. The nights where he tosses and turns, cries and coughs his brains out are definitely the worst. The challenge is too is that he's also stubborn lol. He won't listen to me with things that I know will make him feel better but he doesn't think they will. It's like moving a donkey, they won't do it if they don't want to.

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So my writing has taken a hit, at a time when I need to do some additional writing to get a few good amounts in the queue. I know this largely doesn't make the biggest difference or impact on a number of things but for me, it isn't just some rewards on the chain. I use the writing quite a bit mentally to gather my thoughts and it helps me process a lot of the things going on in my day and week.

If all goes well, it will just be another day or two before the little man turns a corner. These sickness things usually take about a week to sort themselves out on their own, with assistance from us. I don't want to go nuts giving him all kinds of nasty medications and totally destroying his intestinal health and many other negative consequences. That's the challenge for sure, because doing things the more natural way takes a little bit longer but the long-term payoff is much better.

At the end of the day though, it's my responsibility as a father to make sure that I am taking care of my son. It's not easy but the reduction in sleep is worth it if I'm able to help him feel better.

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Now if only I can get him to blow his nose so he won't get in this situation in the first place...

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Sickness is one thing that humbles us human as we most times dont have power over it but thankfully God always makes us live through tough times and hard situations.

 5 days ago  

Yeah sickness is really difficult to deal with! The thing to understand is there is often an underlying issue that causes it.

@tipu curate

 5 days ago  

That's great thanks!

Kids are great...magnets for germs haha! Good luck teaching him to blow his nose, hopefully it helps blow the bugs away! I've recently been hit with the flu myself, definitely puts a spanner in the works (or lack of work!) And makes even the slothliest !SLOTH more slothly!

 5 days ago  

Thankfully he's gotten better at blowing his nose, but still has more to go.

Sadly he's sick again LOL we are looking forward to when this doesn't keep happening!

Looking after a sickness especially to that of a child is very demanding.

I wish him the quickest recovery

 5 days ago  

Thanks! It's indeed challenging when they are kids. Thankfully he's not super young anymore so things aren't as scary but it's still difficult. Appreciate it!

Oh good to hear👍

I feel the same way. I've had some ailments lately and it feels like just when I get one sorted another one comes and it keeps pushing everything back. So frustrating!

 5 days ago  

Yeah it's brutal the same thing happened to him last year - got whacked by a few sicknesses lol. Not good! Hopefully you have a healthy winter this year!

I hope so too!

I like the esoteric theory that sickness is the hint and sign from our soul that we should stop and review our deeds or atittude to ourselves.

 5 days ago  

Oh yeah for sure. There's very often an underlying cause for it!

Beautiful and very interesting place