There is this map going around, showing the statistics of "nice people" and "not nice people".
Though it is spread as funny mischief, unfortunately, it has much more truth than you can imagine.
I have never been a person who lay low and slither away from a situation that might cause a plausible inconvenience calculating my fair interest in mind.
And as unfavourable as it is, that is often caused by knowing too many people, though I always wish to lay low in the workplace specifically.
Even though I am an overly introverted person, unfortunately I attract too much attention. I do not even have any figurative beautiful outline or features that could make anyone possibly interested in me without knowing me.
I get that a lot from my colleagues often that "Man, even though it has not been long since you are here, you are famous! Everybody knows you!"
Then when I strongly refute the argument, they literally start pointing out the personnel, which eventually makes me accept the fact! But then, it makes me wonder as well as in "how did we come to know each other or started to become familiarized!?"
Though, certainly, that familiarity is not caused by being extroverted, but followed by some small events or incidental encounters.
Though it might sound like a nice thing to possess, but I tell you it is not. Knowing many people is only distressful and stressful at work.
However, the more people in your life, the more eventful it becomes, which often results in a negative outcome or events for introverted people mostly because they overthink everything they say or do! Even when I know, the action of unnecessary involvement will not do any good rather might drag me into more troubles further, I cannot help but be entangled when this transpires.
All the contents are mine until mentioned otherwise