Finally, I got a breather.
My dad's finally got out of the hospital and I am happy for it. The thing is, going around the hospital has never been an easy ordeal.
I have so much respect for people that works in the industry and that also helps me understand my partner better. I mean, after a long hours inside the operating room or around the hospital, all you want is just a peace of mind and not stresses. I yap to my partner at least once a week when it's a day off, like dumping all the problems going on in my life. During workday though, I dare not to do it cause being inside the OR is a stressful ordeal.
This week been a little extra, I've got the hive event in just 4 days, the house is in a mess, and there's also my dad's problem. Well, I've developed some type of routine which helped me a lot navigating through this. But still, even just a couple of hours inside the hospital helping around, really zaps my energy. I heard people screaming in pain, family's crying all sort of sad things that I got to witness.
Welcome to my brain dump, it's morning and when I can sit down, sipping a cup of coffee while contemplating life and emptying it out a little.
This week alone, I had so much to think about as I walked through the hospital corridors. It's always a long walk and sometimes a little eerie during the night. Some of the things I thought about were these that at some point I'll expand more.
- I don't think we should fear AI
- Writing using AI is an insult to our intellect.
- Never take the shortcut, just enjoy the process
- Sometimes the family that you cherished the most are going to disappoint you, so never expect anything, not even from family.
- Difficult time really show the people that truly care about you
- Thread carefully, life is a war, never make a blunder
- Don't say things to others that you don't want to hear either
- Not everybody is going to care,just keep working and have your own ways to be satisfied.
- Stop, breathe, think. Never make decision or anything when you're angry or highly caffeinated.
- Being thankful goes a long way, realize that you won't make it alone, thank everyone no matter how small their contribution to your life.
- Be you,be unique, find your own voice especially in the era of AI that's getting rampant.
- Read the bible and understand it by heart, read The Prince to navigate life and people, and the art of war to increase our chances of winning in life. Most of the time the bible has the answer.
- Never feel sorry that you do things by the book.
- Be ruthless when necessary.
- Everyone has a circle and sometimes you're not in it and that's OK too. Just navigate yourself accordingly. watch your back, be on guard 24/7. Tiring? that's the price of life and navigating the unknown 😄
- Be nice, get taken advantage once, never twice cause that's dumb as hell.
- Appear stupid and ignorant, it helps and you get more information and new things to learn anyway.
- Listen more, speak less.
Honestly, those can really be expanded and it's why I am writing it here for my weekly reflection writings that I share here. I think those can be expanded and one of these days once I get more time to breathe and think, I'll expand on that but let me know if you have some thoughts regarding those bulletpoints I made but that's all for my brain dump today!
See ya!
 | 𝘔𝘢𝘤 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘦𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘰𝘺𝘦𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘫𝘢 & 𝘤𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘶𝘳 . 𝘈 𝘵𝘺𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦, 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘴, 𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘩𝘯𝘰𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘰𝘱𝘩𝘺. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘨, 𝘢 𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘭𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘭𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦. 𝘚𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘣𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘴, 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘦𝘸𝘴, 𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘩 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘦𝘸𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴, 𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘩𝘺, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘥𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘱𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵. 𝘖𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘣𝘭𝘶𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘰𝘯, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘪𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘰𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘴𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺. 𝘚𝘩𝘦'𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘤𝘤𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘧𝘰𝘰𝘥𝘪𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘭𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴. 𝘍𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘫𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯! 𝘋𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘶𝘱𝘷𝘰𝘵𝘦, 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬. 𝘈 𝘳𝘦-𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘰. |
Glad that your father is out from the hospital. For sure that hive event is a success because you are doing the hands on to all the items needed.
I agree, everything you shared is true about life. We need to move forward, do our task without expecting from others because some may pull us down when they knew our edge. We need to survive and face the challenges that life thrown to us.
Not expecting anything from others is also freeing, it's like, you just do your best and that's ok if nobody is ever going to acknowledge that. The satisfaction itself is the journey and the things we learn from the process.
I agree. Satisfaction to yourself about the things you made is a great achievement already.
Good to hear about your Dad.
That's some wise advice. I agree with everything you said. I wouldn't deny it takes a lot to consume those in thyself. I struggle with positivity and not having any circle anymore.
But hay, I act stupid to get info too. lol. That's my superpower. lol
Thanks for the words :)
Thank you! sometimes it's better to act fool when you're surrounded by snakes and people who's going to be so happy to see our downfall.
Sure 🤗
Good to hear! Take care!
Thank you relf!
glad to hear that your father is out of the hospital. but, your reflection is more interesting about Ai's insult to human intelligence. i agree with you.
Whenever we write something, it's a process of learning & to help us think logically too. It's really not just about the money.
This is a nice reflection and it’s full of a lot of points!
Having experience with OR environments myself, it can be stressful for sure but you get used to it after a while. There are certainly aspects of it that are more challenging than others but it’s also very rewarding which is nice!
I think it’s a good thing that you jot down these various one sentence points periodically! Helps organize things mentally for sure.
@macchiata, you're rewarding 4 replies from this discussion thread.