I miss coffee table conversations. I get them at work, but there is always the sense of "this is work, so be careful". I have some good friends I can talk with though.
How are we meant to improve ourselves and learn from others, if we don't get deep with people?
Coffee shop meetups were always a highlight to sit chatting or debating, we used to spend hours dissecting topics, sometimes it got pretty heated, that was the fun part trying to reach some conclusion.
Work colleagues one has to be cautious, often taken out of context which leads to disharmony.