Haha! No wonder she is in charge. Women like to know how it is going to go down. We had kids. We know how it can all go south without a plan.
I actually like it both ways. Plan and no plan. Both work, unless there is a monkey wrench and then best-laid plans don't work either.
In the past we have semi compromised a bit of planning but sometimes throwing the plans out the window and we go where our hearts take us
And that's a plus with no planning never a monkey wrench thrown in lol