I guessed as much that your hubby was your paparazzi and finally you introduced him.
Awwwn, going to the market with your hubby, is sweet even though you don't enjoy it. It's the same problem I have, I always get drained out whenever I go to the market but most times, going to the market yourself is best because you alone know what you are looking for and just like you, I have a particular person I buy all I want and most times because of the stress, I just get their numbers, so it will be easier for me.
I hope when you cook that stew and soup, you will send my share down to my state?