I usually don't write article about this topic but I learn little lesson about it yesterday,so I decide to share it with the community,this topic is base on the choice of family as a man we should choose
There is a saying that if you want to learn from man ,learn from those who have pass through what you wanted to learn or those who are going through it ,not those who only read about it from books or those who were told about it because no one can tell the story like the man who pass through it
Should I say I accidentally heard from my uncle and his friends, joking and discussing about their family,the kind of family they set up ,some have two wife ,three while one wife ,the experience and trouble they are facing in their respective family,I need to sat down and hear this because it's just a matter of time or years ,I will also set up my own family,this is a good place to learn from
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One of my uncle friend said, telling my uncle, you don't know what God have done for you ,your have one wife because no matter how people decorate polygamous family with sweet word , polygamous family is not sweet like they always say , they would still be a problem,you won't have a rest of mind
He continues by saying,if you have a good wife , that give you rest of mind ,you won't ever think of adding another one ,you will always wonder,why are other men marrying more than one wife
Having more than one wife is not always peaceful, having one wife also is not always peaceful but having a good wife will bring long life in the family
This are experience from older men , sometime gaining knowledge is not only when we experience it, we can also gain from other experience and I think I just did
I have seen and read stories about men who had fortune, fame and live standard life on thier own but because they choose a wrong partner,they came back to zero levels ,thier life turn upside down
I think is better to wait for years till when you see the right partner , than choose partner because other are choosing , because your friend have already set a family, pressuring you to set yours also ,I believe know formula to this marriage things, know what you want and stick to it ,this also goes to women too
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Very impressive. It is really important to choose a partner only when one is ready and no not follow trends or fall into it because of pressure. At the long run, you're the one dancing to the decision.
Yee ,you grab the point , thanks for stopping by
Although I do not judge those who have more than one wife but I do say if normally you do not have the capacity dont do it. But from my little experience in life, having one wife is an arduous task let alone more.
When you have good wife you won't think of going for second wife ,
One should only marry when he is psychologically mature to do so in addition to settling down with the right and compatible person.
That is the best thing to do because marriage doesn't have formula, what work for you might not work for me
Marriage is something that requires a lot of wisdom and maturity, most people aren't ready for it and it will surely show.
Yes the best thing is to wait for quality you want In your partner before you making decisions
Exactly.
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One of the keys to a successful marriage is marrying a compatible partner, anything less than that can spell a disaster.