oh i think at great length about how a community and country or in general any human group can sometimes be diseased like a brain, for example in the days we like everyone is sensitive, must be aware of other feelings, must SPEAK the proper code social normal set, and this is very dangerous, because, when things are not discussed with an open mind and heart, then, we are in a bad place, because those feelings that started all this, are only real, to the person itself, so in a way we live in a very solipsistic and ill society. the simple fact you and i are happy and surprised to see proper comments and decent discussion goes to show how strange and lonely things can "feel" even in a super connected society. And while on this societal point i would like to make just another analogy to wrap it up, and to show also how all this sometimes comes down to money and interest, when i grew up up to a point, namely Portugal inclusion on CEE no big business could be open on weekends, so if you wanted that rice you forgot you either have a store near by or no go, also, i remember my parents not always both restaurants still for to open and my mother was a chef so, at lest for some time, i would have one but mostly both parents at home, and they have still a happy marriage to this day, once we allowed european law to tell us we should open and change labor market law to allow saturday and sunday shopping centers and other stuff, those places need workers and this workers are moms and dads most times, so if they are not at home, who is raising our kids? it is obvious to me in hindsight this changes made the number of divorces and single parental families rise a lot in my country, in turn now 10 years later i can sense a lot of societal tendencies that glued us together eroded forever, we cant have a society that understands itself and aims for goals in one mind body spirit mindset if we cant even keep families together, this is an issue on many countries, Japan, Korea, and i do believe it comes down to the way you are or not part of your family.
sorry fo the testament and long read :D