I could reply to this, and I could maybe convince you of my solutions.
It would take me hours.
I am on some different time, since I wrote the above, though.
Just this one as food for thought:
loyalty votes are the worst
I disagree. Context matters.
That is how when I post a picture of my food nobody cares, but if Kim Kardashian does, millions of people are interested.
Right, context matters, I see it the same way. I approach it differently, though.
There's a scene in Game of Thrones where Varys (the eunuch) stands in front of Daenerys Targaryen and she demands unconditional loyalty from him. He replies to her something like: "If you want unquestioning loyalty when you might opt for something that goes against everything I have chosen to stand for, then I will contradict you and refuse my service."
Is not every situation in which someone presents you with something potentially like a new blank page and you can decide whether what is on this new page deserves your support or not? Is this not actually something you prefer?
For me, loyalty does not mean that someone always says "yes" to me, quite to the contrary, it is that they can say "no" when I utter something idiotic or plan something stupid or perform under my standard.
Personally, I couldn't care less what's on K.K.'s plate. But sure, if everyone wants to be like Kardashian (or whoever is currently trendy), let them try.
For a start, we could do questions and answers. I wouldn't want you to take hours ;)
This is exactly why I am not going into further details.
what do you mean by that?