I appreciate your candor, and I agree with you. I haven't struggled with an eating disorder, but I am acquainted with people who have, and I know it isn't an easy road. I try to be generous throughout the year, by donating or volunteering, and not reserve goodness for the holidays. And I try to keep holiday meals reasonable in size, so nobody overeats just so they can try everything on the table. Besides, a shorter menu means less work for me!