Yeah, it was hard initially to get out of the system, but I had a lot of support. Especially from the parents, as I don't think I'd ever be able to afford land myself. ( Well, maybe now if steemit takes off in a big way.) Someone told me that if you take a leap of faith, you will find the people who will help you fly. I hope you get to where you want to be someday and find your tribe too!
Likewise if you find yourself in the hills of Kodaikanal :)