Sometimes I wonder if men really know what love is.men seek comfort. Most men are, at heart, uncertain about themselves. They form a relationship and get married to affirm their place in the world. They learn, they think, how to be with her. They call that love. But ultimately it doesn't seem to work. They wonder where love went. It was never really love in the first place, it was an attempt to feel the comfort they found with their mother. The man's wife, girl friend or partner is not his mother. The love he needs to show her is of a totally different kind.its critical that a man understand this in learning how to love a woman. Anyone can love but if you are unable to love yourself you are unable to love someone else, This is something men, particularly, have trouble with. They might respect themselves, think they're absolutely amazing, but loving themselves, that's a bit sissy. No it's not, it's the basis of life and the basis of a balanced personality. Anyone who had a trouble relationship should look, first of all,to themselves, this is often where the problem lies. However, there are some men who just can't love. It makes me sad that so many men who can't love. Yes, they have relationship, get married, have sex, bring up children, still their love remain relatively barren, they are still men who can't find love, they try hard but remain separated from their wife, girl friend or partner. They sometimes have co-dependent relationship based on trust and self -knowledge. What is it that hold them back? What stop them from loving or finding true love? Men who can't find love, who are they? There are men who are looking for their mother. I don't know whether the mother or the men are to be blame for this.these set of men are looking to be fed, have their cleaning done and be generally mollycoddled. I can remember my mother feeding me to show love for me ,I love but I understand that life is stage by stage.
Men are used to running the world and filling their lives with activities and occupation, nowadays men have even taken the role of father so seriously that they can forget that their woman is more than a mother. there are men who can't love, men who never seem to get over the temper tantrum of their childhood . They want everything and they want it now. Maybe you love your woman.... But that's simply not enough. You need to pay attention to her and make her feel like a woman. Every day you need to let her know what you feel, every day you need to care for her and let her know you care for her. This should not be your whole life, however, she needs to know that your a man. They are looking for a man they can trust, a man they can believe in. They're not looking for stuff, they are looking for confident. Believe in yourself and you will be amazing at what will happen, they will find you, they will be attracted to you, just wait and see.
Be confident. Be proud of being her man. There are appropriate time and place for affection. Kissing and intimate touching does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she is yours. she will love it when you walk by her friends and they see how good you are.
Never lie. Lies means trouble. This can taint your relationship and reduce her trust in you considerably.how would you feel if she starts to lie to you?
Do you argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her or you, and she will think twice about going out with you again. Similarly ,if you and your partner have an argument, don't do or say things to her that are mean and spiteful.
Be thoughtful. The small things matters the most. Be a gentleman, hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out,have a jacket or sweater handy so you can give it to her, but don't outdo it, it won't look sincere.
Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthday, anniversary and other milestone are all opportunity to show her how special she is to you.keep an agenda or a calendar with all the dates.
Remember that woman have the idea of being spoiled on these occasion embedded into their psyche from the media. Rose petals on her bed, dinner at a beautiful restaurant -all those things show you really care for her.
You need to start afresh everyday. Treat every day as if it was the start of the relationship " but how do you do that? Love more, care more and be faithful.
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